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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 958 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
  2. 2.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  3. 3.True or false: “You always take my stuff!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  4. 4.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  5. 5.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You keep messing up my things!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  6. 6.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  7. 7.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say how you feel? (a) say when it happens (b) say how you feel
  8. 8.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  9. 9.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say when it happens? (a) give your reason (b) say when it happens
  10. 10.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
  11. 11.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
  12. 12.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or ask for a change? (a) say how you feel (b) ask for a change
  13. 13.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
  14. 14.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  15. 15.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  16. 16.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  17. 17.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) happy (b) hungry (c) sleepy (d) upset
  18. 18.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You’re so rude!” (b) “I feel left out.” (c) “You ignore me!” (d) “You never listen!”
  19. 19.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You’re so annoying with that music!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  20. 20.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
  21. 21.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are mean. Stop laughing!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  22. 22.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they sound louder (b) they win the fight (c) they hide feelings (d) they don’t attack
  23. 23.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or name the action? (a) say how you feel (b) name the action
  24. 24.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  25. 25.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say why it matters? (a) say when it happens (b) say why it matters
  26. 26.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  27. 27.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or give your reason? (a) say when it happens (b) give your reason
  28. 28.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  29. 29.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “Too late.” (b) “Whatever.” (c) “Thanks for listening.” (d) “You should be sorry!”
  30. 30.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
  31. 31.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  32. 32.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or ask for a change? (a) name the action (b) ask for a change
  33. 33.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) the weather (b) your own feelings (c) the other’s faults (d) old fights
  34. 34.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  35. 35.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  36. 36.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  37. 37.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or ask for a change? (a) give your reason (b) ask for a change
  38. 38.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
  39. 39.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or ask for a change? (a) name your feeling (b) ask for a change
  40. 40.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False

Answer key

  1. step 2
  2. False
  3. False
  4. an “I” statement
  5. a blaming “you” line
  6. True
  7. say how you feel
  8. False
  9. say when it happens
  10. step 4
  11. step 3
  12. say how you feel
  13. step 4
  14. True
  15. an “I” statement
  16. False
  17. upset
  18. “I feel left out.”
  19. a blaming “you” line
  20. step 3
  21. a blaming “you” line
  22. they don’t attack
  23. say how you feel
  24. False
  25. say when it happens
  26. True
  27. say when it happens
  28. a blaming “you” line
  29. “Thanks for listening.”
  30. step 2
  31. an “I” statement
  32. name the action
  33. your own feelings
  34. True
  35. True
  36. an “I” statement
  37. give your reason
  38. step 1
  39. name your feeling
  40. False

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