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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 961 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  2. 2.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  3. 3.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  4. 4.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or give your reason? (a) ask for a change (b) give your reason
  5. 5.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
  6. 6.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You always take my stuff!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  7. 7.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  8. 8.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  9. 9.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) your own feelings (b) the weather (c) the other’s faults (d) old fights
  10. 10.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  11. 11.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  12. 12.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say what you would like? (a) give your reason (b) say what you would like
  13. 13.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they win the fight (b) they sound louder (c) they hide feelings (d) they don’t attack
  14. 14.True or false: “You keep messing up my things!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  15. 15.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) sleepy (b) hungry (c) happy (d) upset
  16. 16.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
  17. 17.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
  18. 18.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are so careless and late!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  19. 19.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  20. 20.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are mean. Stop laughing!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  21. 21.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  22. 22.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or ask for a change? (a) give your reason (b) ask for a change
  23. 23.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say how you feel? (a) say why it matters (b) say how you feel
  24. 24.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say why it matters? (a) say what you would like (b) say why it matters
  25. 25.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
  26. 26.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or ask for a change? (a) name your feeling (b) ask for a change
  27. 27.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  28. 28.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You’re so annoying with that music!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  29. 29.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “Thanks for listening.” (b) “Too late.” (c) “You should be sorry!” (d) “Whatever.”
  30. 30.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  31. 31.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  32. 32.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or ask for a change? (a) say how you feel (b) ask for a change
  33. 33.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
  34. 34.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or say what you would like? (a) name the action (b) say what you would like
  35. 35.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say why it matters? (a) say when it happens (b) say why it matters
  36. 36.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say what you would like? (a) say when it happens (b) say what you would like
  37. 37.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  38. 38.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  39. 39.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or give your reason? (a) say how you feel (b) give your reason
  40. 40.True or false: “You never include me!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True

Answer key

  1. True
  2. True
  3. a blaming “you” line
  4. give your reason
  5. step 2
  6. a blaming “you” line
  7. an “I” statement
  8. an “I” statement
  9. your own feelings
  10. False
  11. an “I” statement
  12. give your reason
  13. they don’t attack
  14. True
  15. upset
  16. step 4
  17. step 1
  18. a blaming “you” line
  19. an “I” statement
  20. a blaming “you” line
  21. an “I” statement
  22. give your reason
  23. say how you feel
  24. say why it matters
  25. step 4
  26. name your feeling
  27. an “I” statement
  28. a blaming “you” line
  29. “Thanks for listening.”
  30. an “I” statement
  31. True
  32. say how you feel
  33. step 1
  34. name the action
  35. say when it happens
  36. say when it happens
  37. True
  38. False
  39. say how you feel
  40. False

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