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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 966 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
  2. 2.True or false: “You keep messing up my things!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  3. 3.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  4. 4.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  5. 5.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say what you would like? (a) say when it happens (b) say what you would like
  6. 6.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  7. 7.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
  8. 8.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) the weather (b) the other’s faults (c) old fights (d) your own feelings
  9. 9.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or say why it matters? (a) name your feeling (b) say why it matters
  10. 10.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say what you would like? (a) say why it matters (b) say what you would like
  11. 11.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “Whatever.” (b) “Thanks for listening.” (c) “You should be sorry!” (d) “Too late.”
  12. 12.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or say how you feel? (a) name the action (b) say how you feel
  13. 13.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  14. 14.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  15. 15.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “I feel left out.” (b) “You ignore me!” (c) “You never listen!” (d) “You’re so rude!”
  16. 16.True or false: “You always take my stuff!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  17. 17.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are so careless and late!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  18. 18.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
  19. 19.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or say when it happens? (a) say how you feel (b) say when it happens
  20. 20.True or false: “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  21. 21.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) happy (b) hungry (c) sleepy (d) upset
  22. 22.True or false: “You never include me!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  23. 23.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  24. 24.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  25. 25.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
  26. 26.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say when it happens? (a) say why it matters (b) say when it happens
  27. 27.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
  28. 28.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  29. 29.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  30. 30.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
  31. 31.True or false: “You always take my stuff!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  32. 32.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are mean. Stop laughing!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  33. 33.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or give your reason? (a) say when it happens (b) give your reason
  34. 34.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  35. 35.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
  36. 36.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  37. 37.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  38. 38.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  39. 39.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  40. 40.True or false: “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False

Answer key

  1. step 4
  2. False
  3. False
  4. a blaming “you” line
  5. say when it happens
  6. an “I” statement
  7. step 1
  8. your own feelings
  9. name your feeling
  10. say why it matters
  11. “Thanks for listening.”
  12. say how you feel
  13. False
  14. an “I” statement
  15. “I feel left out.”
  16. False
  17. a blaming “you” line
  18. step 2
  19. say how you feel
  20. True
  21. upset
  22. False
  23. True
  24. True
  25. step 3
  26. say when it happens
  27. step 3
  28. an “I” statement
  29. True
  30. step 1
  31. True
  32. a blaming “you” line
  33. say when it happens
  34. an “I” statement
  35. step 4
  36. True
  37. False
  38. True
  39. True
  40. False

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