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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 97 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  2. 2.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
  3. 3.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) the weather (b) old fights (c) the other’s faults (d) your own feelings
  4. 4.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
  5. 5.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “I feel left out.” (b) “You ignore me!” (c) “You never listen!” (d) “You’re so rude!”
  6. 6.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  7. 7.True or false: “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  8. 8.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say what you would like? (a) say why it matters (b) say what you would like
  9. 9.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say what you would like? (a) say when it happens (b) say what you would like
  10. 10.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
  11. 11.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  12. 12.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  13. 13.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  14. 14.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  15. 15.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  16. 16.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
  17. 17.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) what you would like (b) a list of faults (c) a loud sigh (d) a threat
  18. 18.True or false: “You always take my stuff!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  19. 19.True or false: “You never include me!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  20. 20.True or false: “You keep messing up my things!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  21. 21.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
  22. 22.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or say why it matters? (a) name the action (b) say why it matters
  23. 23.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
  24. 24.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  25. 25.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they don’t attack (b) they sound louder (c) they win the fight (d) they hide feelings
  26. 26.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or say when it happens? (a) name your feeling (b) say when it happens
  27. 27.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  28. 28.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  29. 29.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  30. 30.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  31. 31.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are mean. Stop laughing!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  32. 32.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  33. 33.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  34. 34.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say why it matters? (a) say when it happens (b) say why it matters
  35. 35.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or ask for a change? (a) say when it happens (b) ask for a change
  36. 36.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or name your feeling? (a) ask for a change (b) name your feeling
  37. 37.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  38. 38.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) hungry (b) happy (c) sleepy (d) upset
  39. 39.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are so careless and late!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  40. 40.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or say what you would like? (a) name the action (b) say what you would like

Answer key

  1. an “I” statement
  2. step 2
  3. your own feelings
  4. step 1
  5. “I feel left out.”
  6. False
  7. True
  8. say why it matters
  9. say when it happens
  10. step 3
  11. a blaming “you” line
  12. an “I” statement
  13. an “I” statement
  14. True
  15. False
  16. step 4
  17. what you would like
  18. False
  19. False
  20. True
  21. step 1
  22. name the action
  23. step 2
  24. False
  25. they don’t attack
  26. name your feeling
  27. False
  28. False
  29. an “I” statement
  30. False
  31. a blaming “you” line
  32. an “I” statement
  33. True
  34. say when it happens
  35. say when it happens
  36. name your feeling
  37. False
  38. upset
  39. a blaming “you” line
  40. name the action

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