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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 987 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  2. 2.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or give your reason? (a) say how you feel (b) give your reason
  3. 3.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they win the fight (b) they hide feelings (c) they sound louder (d) they don’t attack
  4. 4.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  5. 5.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  6. 6.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or say how you feel? (a) name the action (b) say how you feel
  7. 7.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
  8. 8.True or false: “You keep messing up my things!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  9. 9.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or name your feeling? (a) say why it matters (b) name your feeling
  10. 10.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or ask for a change? (a) say when it happens (b) ask for a change
  11. 11.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “You should be sorry!” (b) “Too late.” (c) “Thanks for listening.” (d) “Whatever.”
  12. 12.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You keep messing up my things!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  13. 13.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
  14. 14.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You’re so rude!” (b) “You never listen!” (c) “You ignore me!” (d) “I feel left out.”
  15. 15.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  16. 16.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say what you would like? (a) say why it matters (b) say what you would like
  17. 17.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) a threat (b) a list of faults (c) a loud sigh (d) what you would like
  18. 18.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
  19. 19.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) hungry (b) sleepy (c) upset (d) happy
  20. 20.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  21. 21.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or name the action? (a) say what you would like (b) name the action
  22. 22.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
  23. 23.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  24. 24.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  25. 25.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
  26. 26.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say why it matters? (a) say when it happens (b) say why it matters
  27. 27.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  28. 28.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  29. 29.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say when it happens? (a) give your reason (b) say when it happens
  30. 30.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You always take my stuff!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  31. 31.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  32. 32.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say what you would like? (a) give your reason (b) say what you would like
  33. 33.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  34. 34.True or false: “You never include me!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  35. 35.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say why it matters? (a) say what you would like (b) say why it matters
  36. 36.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
  37. 37.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  38. 38.True or false: “You always take my stuff!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  39. 39.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say how you feel? (a) say why it matters (b) say how you feel
  40. 40.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say when it happens? (a) say why it matters (b) say when it happens

Answer key

  1. an “I” statement
  2. say how you feel
  3. they don’t attack
  4. True
  5. an “I” statement
  6. say how you feel
  7. step 2
  8. True
  9. name your feeling
  10. say when it happens
  11. “Thanks for listening.”
  12. a blaming “you” line
  13. step 4
  14. “I feel left out.”
  15. True
  16. say why it matters
  17. what you would like
  18. step 1
  19. upset
  20. an “I” statement
  21. name the action
  22. step 4
  23. a blaming “you” line
  24. True
  25. step 3
  26. say when it happens
  27. True
  28. False
  29. say when it happens
  30. a blaming “you” line
  31. an “I” statement
  32. give your reason
  33. False
  34. False
  35. say why it matters
  36. step 3
  37. False
  38. False
  39. say how you feel
  40. say when it happens

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