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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 99 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  2. 2.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say why it matters? (a) say what you would like (b) say why it matters
  3. 3.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) the other’s faults (b) old fights (c) your own feelings (d) the weather
  4. 4.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “You should be sorry!” (b) “Thanks for listening.” (c) “Too late.” (d) “Whatever.”
  5. 5.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  6. 6.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or give your reason? (a) say what you would like (b) give your reason
  7. 7.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You’re so rude!” (b) “You ignore me!” (c) “You never listen!” (d) “I feel left out.”
  8. 8.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or name the action? (a) give your reason (b) name the action
  9. 9.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or name your feeling? (a) name the action (b) name your feeling
  10. 10.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  11. 11.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
  12. 12.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  13. 13.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  14. 14.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) a list of faults (b) a threat (c) a loud sigh (d) what you would like
  15. 15.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say when it happens? (a) ask for a change (b) say when it happens
  16. 16.True or false: “You keep messing up my things!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  17. 17.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say what you would like? (a) give your reason (b) say what you would like
  18. 18.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
  19. 19.True or false: “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  20. 20.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or say how you feel? (a) name the action (b) say how you feel
  21. 21.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say when it happens? (a) say why it matters (b) say when it happens
  22. 22.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  23. 23.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
  24. 24.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
  25. 25.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  26. 26.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or give your reason? (a) say when it happens (b) give your reason
  27. 27.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or ask for a change? (a) name the action (b) ask for a change
  28. 28.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or give your reason? (a) ask for a change (b) give your reason
  29. 29.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or say what you would like? (a) name your feeling (b) say what you would like
  30. 30.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  31. 31.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  32. 32.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say when it happens? (a) give your reason (b) say when it happens
  33. 33.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say when it happens? (a) say what you would like (b) say when it happens
  34. 34.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) happy (b) sleepy (c) hungry (d) upset
  35. 35.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You’re so annoying with that music!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  36. 36.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  37. 37.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  38. 38.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or give your reason? (a) say how you feel (b) give your reason
  39. 39.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  40. 40.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True

Answer key

  1. True
  2. say why it matters
  3. your own feelings
  4. “Thanks for listening.”
  5. False
  6. give your reason
  7. “I feel left out.”
  8. name the action
  9. name your feeling
  10. True
  11. step 3
  12. an “I” statement
  13. an “I” statement
  14. what you would like
  15. say when it happens
  16. False
  17. give your reason
  18. step 1
  19. False
  20. say how you feel
  21. say when it happens
  22. True
  23. step 1
  24. step 2
  25. False
  26. say when it happens
  27. name the action
  28. give your reason
  29. name your feeling
  30. False
  31. an “I” statement
  32. say when it happens
  33. say when it happens
  34. upset
  35. a blaming “you” line
  36. False
  37. an “I” statement
  38. say how you feel
  39. an “I” statement
  40. False

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