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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 997 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  2. 2.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  3. 3.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  4. 4.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
  5. 5.True or false: “You always take my stuff!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  6. 6.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or say what you would like? (a) name the action (b) say what you would like
  7. 7.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) old fights (b) the other’s faults (c) your own feelings (d) the weather
  8. 8.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You’re so annoying with that music!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  9. 9.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  10. 10.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are mean. Stop laughing!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  11. 11.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  12. 12.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  13. 13.True or false: “You never include me!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  14. 14.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  15. 15.True or false: “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  16. 16.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
  17. 17.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  18. 18.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  19. 19.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they hide feelings (b) they win the fight (c) they sound louder (d) they don’t attack
  20. 20.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) sleepy (b) upset (c) happy (d) hungry
  21. 21.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
  22. 22.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  23. 23.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say when it happens? (a) say why it matters (b) say when it happens
  24. 24.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
  25. 25.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) what you would like (b) a threat (c) a loud sigh (d) a list of faults
  26. 26.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “I feel left out.” (b) “You never listen!” (c) “You ignore me!” (d) “You’re so rude!”
  27. 27.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You always take my stuff!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  28. 28.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or ask for a change? (a) say when it happens (b) ask for a change
  29. 29.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
  30. 30.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or say how you feel? (a) name the action (b) say how you feel
  31. 31.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “Too late.” (b) “Whatever.” (c) “Thanks for listening.” (d) “You should be sorry!”
  32. 32.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
  33. 33.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
  34. 34.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  35. 35.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say when it happens? (a) ask for a change (b) say when it happens
  36. 36.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or give your reason? (a) ask for a change (b) give your reason
  37. 37.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You keep messing up my things!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  38. 38.True or false: “You never include me!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  39. 39.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
  40. 40.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say what you would like? (a) say why it matters (b) say what you would like

Answer key

  1. an “I” statement
  2. an “I” statement
  3. an “I” statement
  4. step 1
  5. False
  6. name the action
  7. your own feelings
  8. a blaming “you” line
  9. False
  10. a blaming “you” line
  11. True
  12. an “I” statement
  13. True
  14. False
  15. False
  16. step 3
  17. True
  18. True
  19. they don’t attack
  20. upset
  21. step 4
  22. an “I” statement
  23. say when it happens
  24. step 4
  25. what you would like
  26. “I feel left out.”
  27. a blaming “you” line
  28. say when it happens
  29. step 1
  30. say how you feel
  31. “Thanks for listening.”
  32. step 2
  33. step 3
  34. an “I” statement
  35. say when it happens
  36. give your reason
  37. a blaming “you” line
  38. False
  39. step 2
  40. say why it matters

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