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Kind Words and Feedback Worksheet

Communication skills lesson 23: Kind words: thanks, sorry and feedback · Set 34 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Specific and sincere): A real apology: says sorry for what you did and how you will fix it, with no “but” — “I’m sorry I was late. Next time I’ll leave earlier.” Kind, useful feedback: one good thing, then one tip — “Great model! The labels could be a bit bigger.” Unkind: “Worst model ever.” A specific compliment names what was good (“Your bowling was so steady today.”); a vague one does not (“Not bad.”). Thank people for their work — the bus driver, the canteen didi.

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  1. 1.True or false: “Nice.” is a vague compliment. (a) True (b) False
  2. 2.True or false: “You explained the sum so clearly — thanks!” is a vague compliment. (a) True (b) False
  3. 3.👂 A friend gives you feedback on your poster. What should you do first? (a) sulk (b) listen and say thanks (c) tear the poster (d) argue back
  4. 4.🥪 A friendly way to give feedback on a friend’s work is… (a) only the mistakes (b) one good thing, one tip (c) a joke about them (d) total silence
  5. 5.😔 You hurt a friend by mistake. When should you say sorry? (a) never (b) only if caught (c) as soon as you can (d) after a year
  6. 6.True or false: “Not bad.” is a vague compliment. (a) True (b) False
  7. 7.🙏 A specific or a vague compliment? “Your bowling was so steady today.” (a) a specific compliment (b) a vague compliment
  8. 8.True or false: “You spoke clearly. Try looking up at the class more.” is unkind feedback. (a) False (b) True
  9. 9.🙏 A specific or a vague compliment? “The way you shaded the mango looks real.” (a) a vague compliment (b) a specific compliment
  10. 10.🙏 A specific or a vague compliment? “Fine work, I guess.” (a) a vague compliment (b) a specific compliment
  11. 11.🙏 A real apology or a fake one? “Sorry I laughed at you. That was unkind, and I won’t do it again.” (a) a fake apology (b) a real apology
  12. 12.🙏 A real apology or a fake one? “Sorry for shouting. I was upset, but that’s no excuse.” (a) a fake apology (b) a real apology
  13. 13.True or false: “Fine work, I guess.” is a vague compliment. (a) False (b) True
  14. 14.True or false: “Sorry if you got upset. You’re too sensitive.” is a real apology. (a) False (b) True
  15. 15.True or false: “Your bowling was so steady today.” is a vague compliment. (a) False (b) True
  16. 16.🙏 A specific or a vague compliment? “Nice.” (a) a vague compliment (b) a specific compliment
  17. 17.🙏 Kind, useful feedback or unkind feedback? “Your drawing has lovely colours; maybe make the sky bigger.” (a) kind, useful feedback (b) unkind feedback
  18. 18.True or false: “I’m sorry I forgot your birthday. Can I treat you tomorrow?” is a real apology. (a) True (b) False
  19. 19.True or false: “Your drawing has lovely colours; maybe make the sky bigger.” is unkind feedback. (a) True (b) False
  20. 20.🙏 A real apology or a fake one? “Okay, sorry, happy now?” (a) a fake apology (b) a real apology
  21. 21.True or false: “The way you shaded the mango looks real.” is a specific compliment. (a) True (b) False
  22. 22.🙏 A real apology or a fake one? “I’m sorry I was late. Next time I’ll leave earlier.” (a) a fake apology (b) a real apology
  23. 23.🙏 A real apology or a fake one? “I’m sorry I forgot your birthday. Can I treat you tomorrow?” (a) a fake apology (b) a real apology
  24. 24.True or false: “Okay, sorry, happy now?” is a fake apology. (a) True (b) False
  25. 25.🙏 A specific or a vague compliment? “You explained the sum so clearly — thanks!” (a) a specific compliment (b) a vague compliment
  26. 26.True or false: “Nice try! Check step 2 of the sum once more.” is unkind feedback. (a) True (b) False
  27. 27.🙏 A specific or a vague compliment? “Not bad.” (a) a vague compliment (b) a specific compliment
  28. 28.True or false: “Your story’s start is exciting. Could the end be longer?” is kind, useful feedback. (a) True (b) False
  29. 29.🙏 A specific or a vague compliment? “Good.” (a) a specific compliment (b) a vague compliment
  30. 30.True or false: “Your story is boring.” is kind, useful feedback. (a) True (b) False
  31. 31.🙏 A specific or a vague compliment? “Okay, cool.” (a) a vague compliment (b) a specific compliment
  32. 32.True or false: “Great model! The labels could be a bit bigger.” is kind, useful feedback. (a) True (b) False
  33. 33.🙏 Someone praises your drawing. What is a good reply? (a) “It’s rubbish.” (b) “I know.” (c) say nothing (d) “Thank you!”
  34. 34.🙏 A specific or a vague compliment? “I love how you helped the new girl settle in.” (a) a vague compliment (b) a specific compliment
  35. 35.True or false: “You sounded silly up there.” is kind, useful feedback. (a) True (b) False
  36. 36.🙏 A real apology or a fake one? “Sorry if you got upset. You’re too sensitive.” (a) a real apology (b) a fake apology
  37. 37.🙏 Kind, useful feedback or unkind feedback? “Your story is boring.” (a) unkind feedback (b) kind, useful feedback
  38. 38.True or false: “I said sorry already, stop it.” is a real apology. (a) False (b) True
  39. 39.🙏 Kind, useful feedback or unkind feedback? “Nice try! Check step 2 of the sum once more.” (a) unkind feedback (b) kind, useful feedback
  40. 40.True or false: “Your story’s ending really surprised me!” is a vague compliment. (a) True (b) False

Answer key

  1. True
  2. False
  3. listen and say thanks
  4. one good thing, one tip
  5. as soon as you can
  6. True
  7. a specific compliment
  8. False
  9. a specific compliment
  10. a vague compliment
  11. a real apology
  12. a real apology
  13. True
  14. False
  15. False
  16. a vague compliment
  17. kind, useful feedback
  18. True
  19. False
  20. a fake apology
  21. True
  22. a real apology
  23. a real apology
  24. True
  25. a specific compliment
  26. False
  27. a vague compliment
  28. True
  29. a vague compliment
  30. False
  31. a vague compliment
  32. True
  33. “Thank you!”
  34. a specific compliment
  35. False
  36. a fake apology
  37. unkind feedback
  38. False
  39. kind, useful feedback
  40. False

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