Kind Words and Feedback Worksheet
Communication tip (Specific and sincere): A real apology: says sorry for what you did and how you will fix it, with no “but” — “I’m sorry I was late. Next time I’ll leave earlier.” Kind, useful feedback: one good thing, then one tip — “Great model! The labels could be a bit bigger.” Unkind: “Worst model ever.” A specific compliment names what was good (“Your bowling was so steady today.”); a vague one does not (“Not bad.”). Thank people for their work — the bus driver, the canteen didi.
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- 1.🙏 Someone praises your drawing. What is a good reply? (a) “Thank you!” (b) “I know.” (c) say nothing (d) “It’s rubbish.”
- 2.🙏 Kind, useful feedback or unkind feedback? “Wrong. Obviously.” (a) unkind feedback (b) kind, useful feedback
- 3.🙏 A real apology or a fake one? “Sorry I laughed at you. That was unkind, and I won’t do it again.” (a) a fake apology (b) a real apology
- 4.🙏 A specific or a vague compliment? “The way you shaded the mango looks real.” (a) a specific compliment (b) a vague compliment
- 5.True or false: “The way you shaded the mango looks real.” is a specific compliment. (a) False (b) True
- 6.🙏 A real apology or a fake one? “Okay, sorry, happy now?” (a) a real apology (b) a fake apology
- 7.True or false: “Sorry… not sorry!” is a fake apology. (a) False (b) True
- 8.True or false: “Sorry for shouting. I was upset, but that’s no excuse.” is a fake apology. (a) False (b) True
- 9.🙏 A specific or a vague compliment? “Fine work, I guess.” (a) a vague compliment (b) a specific compliment
- 10.🙏 Kind, useful feedback or unkind feedback? “Your drawing has lovely colours; maybe make the sky bigger.” (a) unkind feedback (b) kind, useful feedback
- 11.True or false: “You explained the sum so clearly — thanks!” is a vague compliment. (a) True (b) False
- 12.🙏 Kind, useful feedback or unkind feedback? “You sounded silly up there.” (a) unkind feedback (b) kind, useful feedback
- 13.True or false: “You explained the sum so clearly — thanks!” is a specific compliment. (a) False (b) True
- 14.True or false: “Your bowling was so steady today.” is a vague compliment. (a) False (b) True
- 15.True or false: “Ugh, that looks bad.” is kind, useful feedback. (a) True (b) False
- 16.🙏 A specific or a vague compliment? “Your story’s ending really surprised me!” (a) a vague compliment (b) a specific compliment
- 17.True or false: “Good.” is a vague compliment. (a) False (b) True
- 18.True or false: “I’m sorry I forgot your birthday. Can I treat you tomorrow?” is a fake apology. (a) False (b) True
- 19.🙏 A real apology or a fake one? “Sorry for shouting. I was upset, but that’s no excuse.” (a) a fake apology (b) a real apology
- 20.True or false: “I love how you helped the new girl settle in.” is a vague compliment. (a) False (b) True
- 21.🙏 Kind, useful feedback or unkind feedback? “Nice try! Check step 2 of the sum once more.” (a) unkind feedback (b) kind, useful feedback
- 22.True or false: “I’m sorry I forgot your birthday. Can I treat you tomorrow?” is a real apology. (a) False (b) True
- 23.💐 Why say “thank you” to the bus driver or the canteen didi? (a) it shows respect (b) it is a rule (c) it gets free food (d) it is too formal
- 24.True or false: “Nice try! Check step 2 of the sum once more.” is kind, useful feedback. (a) False (b) True
- 25.True or false: “Your story is boring.” is kind, useful feedback. (a) True (b) False
- 26.True or false: “Your story’s start is exciting. Could the end be longer?” is unkind feedback. (a) False (b) True
- 27.True or false: “I said sorry already, stop it.” is a fake apology. (a) False (b) True
- 28.True or false: “Nice.” is a vague compliment. (a) False (b) True
- 29.🙏 A real apology or a fake one? “I’m sorry I forgot your birthday. Can I treat you tomorrow?” (a) a fake apology (b) a real apology
- 30.🙏 Kind, useful feedback or unkind feedback? “Your story is boring.” (a) unkind feedback (b) kind, useful feedback
- 31.True or false: “Your drawing has lovely colours; maybe make the sky bigger.” is kind, useful feedback. (a) True (b) False
- 32.True or false: “Sorry if you got upset. You’re too sensitive.” is a fake apology. (a) False (b) True
- 33.True or false: “Sorry, but it’s your fault for leaving it there.” is a fake apology. (a) False (b) True
- 34.🙏 A specific or a vague compliment? “I love how you helped the new girl settle in.” (a) a specific compliment (b) a vague compliment
- 35.True or false: “Your drawing has lovely colours; maybe make the sky bigger.” is unkind feedback. (a) False (b) True
- 36.🧩 A real apology includes… (a) a laugh (b) sorry plus a fix (c) a “but” excuse (d) blaming them
- 37.True or false: “Your story’s ending really surprised me!” is a vague compliment. (a) True (b) False
- 38.True or false: “The way you shaded the mango looks real.” is a vague compliment. (a) False (b) True
- 39.🙏 A specific or a vague compliment? “Okay, cool.” (a) a specific compliment (b) a vague compliment
- 40.👂 A friend gives you feedback on your poster. What should you do first? (a) sulk (b) argue back (c) tear the poster (d) listen and say thanks
Answer key
- “Thank you!”
- unkind feedback
- a real apology
- a specific compliment
- True
- a fake apology
- True
- False
- a vague compliment
- kind, useful feedback
- False
- unkind feedback
- True
- False
- False
- a specific compliment
- True
- False
- a real apology
- False
- kind, useful feedback
- True
- it shows respect
- True
- False
- False
- True
- True
- a real apology
- unkind feedback
- True
- True
- True
- a specific compliment
- False
- sorry plus a fix
- False
- False
- a vague compliment
- listen and say thanks
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