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Kind Words and Feedback Worksheet

Communication skills lesson 23: Kind words: thanks, sorry and feedback · Set 886 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Specific and sincere): A real apology: says sorry for what you did and how you will fix it, with no “but” — “I’m sorry I was late. Next time I’ll leave earlier.” Kind, useful feedback: one good thing, then one tip — “Great model! The labels could be a bit bigger.” Unkind: “Worst model ever.” A specific compliment names what was good (“Your bowling was so steady today.”); a vague one does not (“Not bad.”). Thank people for their work — the bus driver, the canteen didi.

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  1. 1.True or false: “Your story’s ending really surprised me!” is a vague compliment. (a) False (b) True
  2. 2.🙏 A real apology or a fake one? “Sorry for shouting. I was upset, but that’s no excuse.” (a) a real apology (b) a fake apology
  3. 3.True or false: “Wrong. Obviously.” is kind, useful feedback. (a) True (b) False
  4. 4.🙏 A specific or a vague compliment? “Okay, cool.” (a) a specific compliment (b) a vague compliment
  5. 5.True or false: “The way you shaded the mango looks real.” is a specific compliment. (a) False (b) True
  6. 6.True or false: “Okay, cool.” is a specific compliment. (a) False (b) True
  7. 7.True or false: “Good.” is a specific compliment. (a) False (b) True
  8. 8.🙏 Kind, useful feedback or unkind feedback? “Wrong. Obviously.” (a) kind, useful feedback (b) unkind feedback
  9. 9.🙏 A specific or a vague compliment? “Not bad.” (a) a vague compliment (b) a specific compliment
  10. 10.True or false: “Sorry I laughed at you. That was unkind, and I won’t do it again.” is a real apology. (a) True (b) False
  11. 11.True or false: “Sorry if you got upset. You’re too sensitive.” is a real apology. (a) False (b) True
  12. 12.🙏 Someone praises your drawing. What is a good reply? (a) “It’s rubbish.” (b) “I know.” (c) “Thank you!” (d) say nothing
  13. 13.True or false: “I’m sorry I broke your pencil. I’ll get you a new one.” is a fake apology. (a) True (b) False
  14. 14.🙏 Kind, useful feedback or unkind feedback? “Worst model ever.” (a) kind, useful feedback (b) unkind feedback
  15. 15.True or false: “I’m sorry I forgot your birthday. Can I treat you tomorrow?” is a fake apology. (a) True (b) False
  16. 16.True or false: “I’m sorry I was late. Next time I’ll leave earlier.” is a real apology. (a) True (b) False
  17. 17.🥪 A friendly way to give feedback on a friend’s work is… (a) a joke about them (b) total silence (c) one good thing, one tip (d) only the mistakes
  18. 18.🙏 A real apology or a fake one? “Sorry… not sorry!” (a) a real apology (b) a fake apology
  19. 19.🙏 A specific or a vague compliment? “Fine work, I guess.” (a) a vague compliment (b) a specific compliment
  20. 20.🙏 Kind, useful feedback or unkind feedback? “You sounded silly up there.” (a) unkind feedback (b) kind, useful feedback
  21. 21.True or false: “I’m sorry I broke your pencil. I’ll get you a new one.” is a real apology. (a) True (b) False
  22. 22.True or false: “Fine work, I guess.” is a specific compliment. (a) True (b) False
  23. 23.True or false: “I’m sorry I was late. Next time I’ll leave earlier.” is a fake apology. (a) True (b) False
  24. 24.🙏 A real apology or a fake one? “Sorry, but it’s your fault for leaving it there.” (a) a real apology (b) a fake apology
  25. 25.🙏 A real apology or a fake one? “Sorry if you got upset. You’re too sensitive.” (a) a real apology (b) a fake apology
  26. 26.True or false: “Great model! The labels could be a bit bigger.” is kind, useful feedback. (a) True (b) False
  27. 27.True or false: “Your story is boring.” is kind, useful feedback. (a) False (b) True
  28. 28.True or false: “Your drawing has lovely colours; maybe make the sky bigger.” is unkind feedback. (a) False (b) True
  29. 29.True or false: “Great model! The labels could be a bit bigger.” is unkind feedback. (a) True (b) False
  30. 30.👂 A friend gives you feedback on your poster. What should you do first? (a) sulk (b) tear the poster (c) listen and say thanks (d) argue back
  31. 31.True or false: “Okay, sorry, happy now?” is a real apology. (a) True (b) False
  32. 32.🙏 Kind, useful feedback or unkind feedback? “You spoke clearly. Try looking up at the class more.” (a) unkind feedback (b) kind, useful feedback
  33. 33.True or false: “Sorry… not sorry!” is a fake apology. (a) False (b) True
  34. 34.True or false: “Ugh, that looks bad.” is unkind feedback. (a) True (b) False
  35. 35.True or false: “Sorry I laughed at you. That was unkind, and I won’t do it again.” is a fake apology. (a) False (b) True
  36. 36.😔 You hurt a friend by mistake. When should you say sorry? (a) only if caught (b) as soon as you can (c) never (d) after a year
  37. 37.🙏 A real apology or a fake one? “I’m sorry I broke your pencil. I’ll get you a new one.” (a) a real apology (b) a fake apology
  38. 38.True or false: “Your bowling was so steady today.” is a specific compliment. (a) False (b) True
  39. 39.🙏 A specific or a vague compliment? “The way you shaded the mango looks real.” (a) a specific compliment (b) a vague compliment
  40. 40.🙏 A specific or a vague compliment? “I love how you helped the new girl settle in.” (a) a vague compliment (b) a specific compliment

Answer key

  1. False
  2. a real apology
  3. False
  4. a vague compliment
  5. True
  6. False
  7. False
  8. unkind feedback
  9. a vague compliment
  10. True
  11. False
  12. “Thank you!”
  13. False
  14. unkind feedback
  15. False
  16. True
  17. one good thing, one tip
  18. a fake apology
  19. a vague compliment
  20. unkind feedback
  21. True
  22. False
  23. False
  24. a fake apology
  25. a fake apology
  26. True
  27. False
  28. False
  29. False
  30. listen and say thanks
  31. False
  32. kind, useful feedback
  33. True
  34. True
  35. False
  36. as soon as you can
  37. a real apology
  38. True
  39. a specific compliment
  40. a specific compliment

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