Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.🗣️ Which line helps calm a conflict? (a) “Let’s hear both sides.” (b) “Stop being silly!” (c) “You are always wrong.” (d) “I don’t care.”
- 2.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: focusing on the problem? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 3.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: listening without blame? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 4.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or cool off for a minute? (a) list possible fixes (b) cool off for a minute
- 5.👂 Why listen to both sides in a conflict? (a) to find who to blame (b) to waste time (c) to understand fully (d) to pick a winner
- 6.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) spreading gossip (b) bringing up old fights (c) using a calm voice (d) taking sides at once
- 7.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: choose a fix together? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
- 8.🧩 Two teammates are arguing loudly over who presents. What is the first step? (a) ignore them (b) pick a winner fast (c) take a vote at once (d) help them calm down
- 9.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: taking sides at once? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 10.True or false: “focusing on the problem” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 11.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: let each person speak? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
- 12.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) taking sides at once (c) spreading gossip (d) shouting back
- 13.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: cool off for a minute? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
- 14.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: finding a middle way? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 15.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) bringing up old fights (b) saying “I feel…” (c) apologising sincerely (d) using a calm voice
- 16.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: saying “I feel…”? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 17.True or false: “saying “I feel…”” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 18.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) focusing on the problem (b) walking off in anger (c) apologising sincerely (d) using a calm voice
- 19.🤝 Two members want different poster designs. Which is a fair option? (a) use the louder one’s (b) scrap the project (c) the leader picks alone (d) combine the best parts
- 20.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) focusing on the problem (c) spreading gossip (d) listening without blame
- 21.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or listen to both sides? (a) list possible fixes (b) listen to both sides
- 22.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: calm down? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
- 23.True or false: “apologising sincerely” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 24.True or false: “shouting back” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 25.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: agree on a plan? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
- 26.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) listening without blame (b) focusing on the problem (c) finding a middle way (d) bringing up old fights
- 27.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) apologising sincerely (b) saying “I feel…” (c) finding a middle way (d) walking off in anger
- 28.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) focusing on the problem (b) taking sides at once (c) bringing up old fights (d) shouting back
- 29.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) listening without blame (b) taking sides at once (c) finding a middle way (d) apologising sincerely
- 30.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: calm down or brainstorm solutions? (a) calm down (b) brainstorm solutions
- 31.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: find options? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
- 32.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: apologising sincerely? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 33.True or false: “saying “I feel…”” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 34.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or hear each side fully? (a) agree on a plan (b) hear each side fully
- 35.True or false: “using a calm voice” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 36.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: listen to both sides? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
- 37.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) shouting back (b) apologising sincerely (c) finding a middle way (d) listening without blame
- 38.True or false: “walking off in anger” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 39.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: hear each side fully? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
- 40.✅ How does solving a conflict end? (a) with a fight (b) with silence (c) with an agreed plan (d) with a winner and loser
Answer key
- “Let’s hear both sides.”
- helps solve it
- helps solve it
- cool off for a minute
- to understand fully
- using a calm voice
- step 4
- help them calm down
- makes it worse
- False
- step 2
- saying “I feel…”
- step 1
- helps solve it
- bringing up old fights
- helps solve it
- True
- walking off in anger
- combine the best parts
- spreading gossip
- listen to both sides
- step 1
- True
- False
- step 4
- bringing up old fights
- walking off in anger
- focusing on the problem
- taking sides at once
- calm down
- step 3
- helps solve it
- False
- hear each side fully
- False
- step 2
- shouting back
- False
- step 2
- with an agreed plan
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