Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or hear each side fully? (a) find options (b) hear each side fully
- 2.True or false: “finding a middle way” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 3.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) focusing on the problem (b) taking sides at once (c) saying “I feel…” (d) apologising sincerely
- 4.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or calm down? (a) agree on a plan (b) calm down
- 5.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: find options? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
- 6.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) taking sides at once (b) spreading gossip (c) bringing up old fights (d) using a calm voice
- 7.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: spreading gossip? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 8.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: walking off in anger? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 9.✅ How does solving a conflict end? (a) with a winner and loser (b) with a fight (c) with silence (d) with an agreed plan
- 10.True or false: “listening without blame” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 11.True or false: “walking off in anger” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 12.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: using a calm voice? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 13.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) finding a middle way (b) saying “I feel…” (c) spreading gossip (d) apologising sincerely
- 14.🧩 Two teammates are arguing loudly over who presents. What is the first step? (a) pick a winner fast (b) ignore them (c) help them calm down (d) take a vote at once
- 15.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or hear each side fully? (a) agree on a plan (b) hear each side fully
- 16.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) walking off in anger (b) shouting back (c) taking sides at once (d) listening without blame
- 17.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: listen to both sides? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
- 18.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) apologising sincerely (b) focusing on the problem (c) spreading gossip (d) listening without blame
- 19.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: finding a middle way? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 20.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) taking sides at once (b) name-calling (c) walking off in anger (d) saying “I feel…”
- 21.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: hear each side fully? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
- 22.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: cool off for a minute? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
- 23.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: hear each side fully or cool off for a minute? (a) hear each side fully (b) cool off for a minute
- 24.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) focusing on the problem (b) using a calm voice (c) shouting back (d) saying “I feel…”
- 25.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: calm down? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
- 26.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) spreading gossip (b) name-calling (c) walking off in anger (d) using a calm voice
- 27.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: saying “I feel…”? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 28.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: listen to both sides or agree on a plan? (a) listen to both sides (b) agree on a plan
- 29.True or false: “saying “I feel…”” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 30.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) focusing on the problem (b) taking sides at once (c) walking off in anger (d) spreading gossip
- 31.🗣️ Which line helps calm a conflict? (a) “Stop being silly!” (b) “Let’s hear both sides.” (c) “I don’t care.” (d) “You are always wrong.”
- 32.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) taking sides at once (b) finding a middle way (c) spreading gossip (d) bringing up old fights
- 33.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) apologising sincerely (c) finding a middle way (d) bringing up old fights
- 34.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: listening without blame? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 35.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: shouting back? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 36.True or false: “bringing up old fights” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 37.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: brainstorm solutions? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
- 38.True or false: “apologising sincerely” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 39.True or false: “bringing up old fights” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 40.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: list possible fixes? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
Answer key
- hear each side fully
- False
- taking sides at once
- calm down
- step 3
- using a calm voice
- makes it worse
- makes it worse
- with an agreed plan
- True
- True
- helps solve it
- spreading gossip
- help them calm down
- hear each side fully
- listening without blame
- step 2
- spreading gossip
- helps solve it
- saying “I feel…”
- step 2
- step 1
- cool off for a minute
- shouting back
- step 1
- using a calm voice
- helps solve it
- listen to both sides
- False
- focusing on the problem
- “Let’s hear both sides.”
- finding a middle way
- bringing up old fights
- helps solve it
- makes it worse
- False
- step 3
- False
- True
- step 3
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