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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 151 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  2. 2.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) old fights (b) your own feelings (c) the weather (d) the other’s faults
  3. 3.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they don’t attack (b) they sound louder (c) they hide feelings (d) they win the fight
  4. 4.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
  5. 5.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  6. 6.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
  7. 7.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You always take my stuff!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  8. 8.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say how you feel? (a) ask for a change (b) say how you feel
  9. 9.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
  10. 10.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say why it matters? (a) ask for a change (b) say why it matters
  11. 11.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  12. 12.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) happy (b) sleepy (c) upset (d) hungry
  13. 13.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say how you feel? (a) say what you would like (b) say how you feel
  14. 14.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) a threat (b) a loud sigh (c) what you would like (d) a list of faults
  15. 15.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  16. 16.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are so careless and late!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  17. 17.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or say when it happens? (a) say how you feel (b) say when it happens
  18. 18.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  19. 19.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are mean. Stop laughing!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  20. 20.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  21. 21.True or false: “You never include me!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  22. 22.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
  23. 23.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say why it matters? (a) say when it happens (b) say why it matters
  24. 24.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  25. 25.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
  26. 26.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say what you would like? (a) say when it happens (b) say what you would like
  27. 27.True or false: “You cheat every time!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  28. 28.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  29. 29.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or ask for a change? (a) say why it matters (b) ask for a change
  30. 30.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  31. 31.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  32. 32.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You ignore me!” (b) “I feel left out.” (c) “You’re so rude!” (d) “You never listen!”
  33. 33.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say when it happens? (a) give your reason (b) say when it happens
  34. 34.True or false: “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  35. 35.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
  36. 36.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or give your reason? (a) name the action (b) give your reason
  37. 37.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
  38. 38.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or say why it matters? (a) name the action (b) say why it matters
  39. 39.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
  40. 40.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or ask for a change? (a) give your reason (b) ask for a change

Answer key

  1. False
  2. your own feelings
  3. they don’t attack
  4. step 1
  5. an “I” statement
  6. step 3
  7. a blaming “you” line
  8. say how you feel
  9. step 1
  10. say why it matters
  11. True
  12. upset
  13. say how you feel
  14. what you would like
  15. True
  16. a blaming “you” line
  17. say how you feel
  18. False
  19. a blaming “you” line
  20. an “I” statement
  21. True
  22. step 2
  23. say when it happens
  24. False
  25. step 4
  26. say when it happens
  27. False
  28. an “I” statement
  29. say why it matters
  30. an “I” statement
  31. True
  32. “I feel left out.”
  33. say when it happens
  34. False
  35. step 4
  36. name the action
  37. step 2
  38. name the action
  39. step 3
  40. give your reason

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