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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 193 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You ignore me!” (b) “You’re so rude!” (c) “You never listen!” (d) “I feel left out.”
  2. 2.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or say when it happens? (a) say how you feel (b) say when it happens
  3. 3.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or say why it matters? (a) say how you feel (b) say why it matters
  4. 4.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say when it happens? (a) say why it matters (b) say when it happens
  5. 5.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or say why it matters? (a) name the action (b) say why it matters
  6. 6.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  7. 7.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are mean. Stop laughing!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  8. 8.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are so careless and late!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  9. 9.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or ask for a change? (a) name your feeling (b) ask for a change
  10. 10.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
  11. 11.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or give your reason? (a) say what you would like (b) give your reason
  12. 12.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  13. 13.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  14. 14.True or false: “You never include me!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  15. 15.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
  16. 16.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You’re so annoying with that music!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  17. 17.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they don’t attack (b) they win the fight (c) they hide feelings (d) they sound louder
  18. 18.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  19. 19.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  20. 20.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  21. 21.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
  22. 22.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
  23. 23.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  24. 24.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  25. 25.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  26. 26.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  27. 27.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  28. 28.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) happy (b) upset (c) sleepy (d) hungry
  29. 29.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  30. 30.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say what you would like? (a) give your reason (b) say what you would like
  31. 31.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
  32. 32.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  33. 33.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) a loud sigh (b) what you would like (c) a list of faults (d) a threat
  34. 34.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  35. 35.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You keep messing up my things!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  36. 36.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or give your reason? (a) ask for a change (b) give your reason
  37. 37.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You always take my stuff!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  38. 38.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) the other’s faults (b) the weather (c) old fights (d) your own feelings
  39. 39.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or give your reason? (a) say how you feel (b) give your reason
  40. 40.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line

Answer key

  1. “I feel left out.”
  2. say how you feel
  3. say how you feel
  4. say when it happens
  5. name the action
  6. an “I” statement
  7. a blaming “you” line
  8. a blaming “you” line
  9. name your feeling
  10. step 4
  11. give your reason
  12. a blaming “you” line
  13. an “I” statement
  14. False
  15. step 3
  16. a blaming “you” line
  17. they don’t attack
  18. False
  19. False
  20. a blaming “you” line
  21. step 1
  22. step 1
  23. an “I” statement
  24. True
  25. an “I” statement
  26. an “I” statement
  27. True
  28. upset
  29. True
  30. give your reason
  31. step 3
  32. False
  33. what you would like
  34. False
  35. a blaming “you” line
  36. give your reason
  37. a blaming “you” line
  38. your own feelings
  39. say how you feel
  40. an “I” statement

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