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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 274 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
  2. 2.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) hungry (b) upset (c) sleepy (d) happy
  3. 3.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You always take my stuff!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  4. 4.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  5. 5.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You keep messing up my things!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  6. 6.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or say what you would like? (a) say how you feel (b) say what you would like
  7. 7.True or false: “You always take my stuff!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  8. 8.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say what you would like? (a) say when it happens (b) say what you would like
  9. 9.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  10. 10.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  11. 11.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or give your reason? (a) say what you would like (b) give your reason
  12. 12.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  13. 13.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
  14. 14.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or name the action? (a) give your reason (b) name the action
  15. 15.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or give your reason? (a) name your feeling (b) give your reason
  16. 16.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
  17. 17.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or say why it matters? (a) say how you feel (b) say why it matters
  18. 18.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) a threat (b) a list of faults (c) a loud sigh (d) what you would like
  19. 19.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  20. 20.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You never listen!” (b) “You ignore me!” (c) “I feel left out.” (d) “You’re so rude!”
  21. 21.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or say how you feel? (a) name the action (b) say how you feel
  22. 22.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  23. 23.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
  24. 24.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are so careless and late!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  25. 25.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “Too late.” (b) “Whatever.” (c) “You should be sorry!” (d) “Thanks for listening.”
  26. 26.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say how you feel? (a) say why it matters (b) say how you feel
  27. 27.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or name the action? (a) name your feeling (b) name the action
  28. 28.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say when it happens? (a) ask for a change (b) say when it happens
  29. 29.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say why it matters? (a) say when it happens (b) say why it matters
  30. 30.True or false: “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  31. 31.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
  32. 32.True or false: “You cheat every time!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  33. 33.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  34. 34.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  35. 35.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  36. 36.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  37. 37.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say when it happens? (a) say why it matters (b) say when it happens
  38. 38.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  39. 39.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  40. 40.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or ask for a change? (a) say why it matters (b) ask for a change

Answer key

  1. step 3
  2. upset
  3. a blaming “you” line
  4. False
  5. a blaming “you” line
  6. say how you feel
  7. False
  8. say when it happens
  9. True
  10. an “I” statement
  11. give your reason
  12. an “I” statement
  13. step 1
  14. name the action
  15. name your feeling
  16. step 1
  17. say how you feel
  18. what you would like
  19. an “I” statement
  20. “I feel left out.”
  21. say how you feel
  22. False
  23. step 3
  24. a blaming “you” line
  25. “Thanks for listening.”
  26. say how you feel
  27. name your feeling
  28. say when it happens
  29. say when it happens
  30. False
  31. step 2
  32. True
  33. True
  34. False
  35. True
  36. an “I” statement
  37. say when it happens
  38. True
  39. an “I” statement
  40. say why it matters

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