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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 275 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
  2. 2.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say when it happens? (a) give your reason (b) say when it happens
  3. 3.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or ask for a change? (a) name your feeling (b) ask for a change
  4. 4.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they hide feelings (b) they don’t attack (c) they sound louder (d) they win the fight
  5. 5.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
  6. 6.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) happy (b) sleepy (c) hungry (d) upset
  7. 7.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  8. 8.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You’re so annoying with that music!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  9. 9.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  10. 10.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You’re so rude!” (b) “I feel left out.” (c) “You never listen!” (d) “You ignore me!”
  11. 11.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say why it matters? (a) say what you would like (b) say why it matters
  12. 12.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  13. 13.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  14. 14.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  15. 15.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
  16. 16.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or name the action? (a) say what you would like (b) name the action
  17. 17.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
  18. 18.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
  19. 19.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or say what you would like? (a) name the action (b) say what you would like
  20. 20.True or false: “You always take my stuff!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  21. 21.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say how you feel? (a) say when it happens (b) say how you feel
  22. 22.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or ask for a change? (a) say when it happens (b) ask for a change
  23. 23.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “You should be sorry!” (b) “Thanks for listening.” (c) “Whatever.” (d) “Too late.”
  24. 24.True or false: “You keep messing up my things!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  25. 25.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or say why it matters? (a) name your feeling (b) say why it matters
  26. 26.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or ask for a change? (a) give your reason (b) ask for a change
  27. 27.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or give your reason? (a) ask for a change (b) give your reason
  28. 28.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or give your reason? (a) say when it happens (b) give your reason
  29. 29.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  30. 30.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say why it matters? (a) ask for a change (b) say why it matters
  31. 31.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  32. 32.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  33. 33.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or ask for a change? (a) say how you feel (b) ask for a change
  34. 34.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or say what you would like? (a) name your feeling (b) say what you would like
  35. 35.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are so careless and late!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  36. 36.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
  37. 37.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  38. 38.True or false: “You never include me!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  39. 39.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say what you would like? (a) say when it happens (b) say what you would like
  40. 40.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or name the action? (a) say why it matters (b) name the action

Answer key

  1. step 2
  2. say when it happens
  3. name your feeling
  4. they don’t attack
  5. step 1
  6. upset
  7. False
  8. a blaming “you” line
  9. an “I” statement
  10. “I feel left out.”
  11. say why it matters
  12. a blaming “you” line
  13. a blaming “you” line
  14. an “I” statement
  15. step 3
  16. name the action
  17. step 3
  18. step 4
  19. name the action
  20. True
  21. say how you feel
  22. say when it happens
  23. “Thanks for listening.”
  24. False
  25. name your feeling
  26. give your reason
  27. give your reason
  28. say when it happens
  29. an “I” statement
  30. say why it matters
  31. False
  32. True
  33. say how you feel
  34. name your feeling
  35. a blaming “you” line
  36. step 1
  37. an “I” statement
  38. False
  39. say when it happens
  40. name the action

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