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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 291 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or say when it happens? (a) say how you feel (b) say when it happens
  2. 2.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  3. 3.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
  4. 4.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or name your feeling? (a) name the action (b) name your feeling
  5. 5.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You keep messing up my things!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  6. 6.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or ask for a change? (a) name your feeling (b) ask for a change
  7. 7.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say when it happens? (a) give your reason (b) say when it happens
  8. 8.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  9. 9.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) the other’s faults (b) your own feelings (c) old fights (d) the weather
  10. 10.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
  11. 11.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You’re so annoying with that music!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  12. 12.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  13. 13.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are mean. Stop laughing!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  14. 14.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  15. 15.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  16. 16.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) a threat (b) a loud sigh (c) a list of faults (d) what you would like
  17. 17.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
  18. 18.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or give your reason? (a) say when it happens (b) give your reason
  19. 19.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  20. 20.True or false: “You keep messing up my things!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  21. 21.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
  22. 22.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
  23. 23.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  24. 24.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say when it happens? (a) ask for a change (b) say when it happens
  25. 25.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  26. 26.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or ask for a change? (a) name the action (b) ask for a change
  27. 27.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or name the action? (a) give your reason (b) name the action
  28. 28.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say how you feel? (a) say when it happens (b) say how you feel
  29. 29.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  30. 30.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
  31. 31.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You ignore me!” (b) “You never listen!” (c) “You’re so rude!” (d) “I feel left out.”
  32. 32.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You always take my stuff!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  33. 33.True or false: “You cheat every time!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  34. 34.True or false: “You keep messing up my things!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  35. 35.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they win the fight (b) they don’t attack (c) they hide feelings (d) they sound louder
  36. 36.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  37. 37.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  38. 38.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or ask for a change? (a) say when it happens (b) ask for a change
  39. 39.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  40. 40.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement

Answer key

  1. say how you feel
  2. False
  3. step 3
  4. name your feeling
  5. a blaming “you” line
  6. name your feeling
  7. say when it happens
  8. False
  9. your own feelings
  10. step 1
  11. a blaming “you” line
  12. a blaming “you” line
  13. a blaming “you” line
  14. a blaming “you” line
  15. True
  16. what you would like
  17. step 2
  18. say when it happens
  19. False
  20. True
  21. step 1
  22. step 4
  23. True
  24. say when it happens
  25. False
  26. name the action
  27. name the action
  28. say how you feel
  29. an “I” statement
  30. step 3
  31. “I feel left out.”
  32. a blaming “you” line
  33. False
  34. False
  35. they don’t attack
  36. an “I” statement
  37. True
  38. say when it happens
  39. True
  40. an “I” statement

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