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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 306 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
  2. 2.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  3. 3.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they don’t attack (b) they sound louder (c) they win the fight (d) they hide feelings
  4. 4.True or false: “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  5. 5.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  6. 6.True or false: “You cheat every time!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  7. 7.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) the weather (b) old fights (c) your own feelings (d) the other’s faults
  8. 8.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You’re so annoying with that music!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  9. 9.True or false: “You cheat every time!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  10. 10.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
  11. 11.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  12. 12.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  13. 13.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or give your reason? (a) say how you feel (b) give your reason
  14. 14.True or false: “You never include me!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  15. 15.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You keep messing up my things!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  16. 16.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or name the action? (a) name your feeling (b) name the action
  17. 17.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or say what you would like? (a) say how you feel (b) say what you would like
  18. 18.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or name your feeling? (a) name the action (b) name your feeling
  19. 19.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) sleepy (b) upset (c) hungry (d) happy
  20. 20.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  21. 21.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “You should be sorry!” (b) “Thanks for listening.” (c) “Whatever.” (d) “Too late.”
  22. 22.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say why it matters? (a) say what you would like (b) say why it matters
  23. 23.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or say why it matters? (a) say how you feel (b) say why it matters
  24. 24.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  25. 25.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or ask for a change? (a) say why it matters (b) ask for a change
  26. 26.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
  27. 27.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) what you would like (b) a list of faults (c) a loud sigh (d) a threat
  28. 28.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
  29. 29.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
  30. 30.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  31. 31.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
  32. 32.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or name your feeling? (a) ask for a change (b) name your feeling
  33. 33.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or say when it happens? (a) name your feeling (b) say when it happens
  34. 34.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  35. 35.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  36. 36.True or false: “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  37. 37.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
  38. 38.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say what you would like? (a) say why it matters (b) say what you would like
  39. 39.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are so careless and late!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  40. 40.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or give your reason? (a) name the action (b) give your reason

Answer key

  1. step 2
  2. False
  3. they don’t attack
  4. False
  5. an “I” statement
  6. False
  7. your own feelings
  8. a blaming “you” line
  9. True
  10. step 4
  11. False
  12. a blaming “you” line
  13. say how you feel
  14. False
  15. a blaming “you” line
  16. name your feeling
  17. say how you feel
  18. name your feeling
  19. upset
  20. False
  21. “Thanks for listening.”
  22. say why it matters
  23. say how you feel
  24. True
  25. say why it matters
  26. step 1
  27. what you would like
  28. step 4
  29. step 1
  30. a blaming “you” line
  31. step 3
  32. name your feeling
  33. name your feeling
  34. True
  35. True
  36. True
  37. step 2
  38. say why it matters
  39. a blaming “you” line
  40. name the action

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