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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 309 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.True or false: “You always take my stuff!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  2. 2.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or name your feeling? (a) say when it happens (b) name your feeling
  3. 3.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  4. 4.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
  5. 5.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  6. 6.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  7. 7.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “Whatever.” (b) “You should be sorry!” (c) “Thanks for listening.” (d) “Too late.”
  8. 8.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  9. 9.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) old fights (b) the other’s faults (c) the weather (d) your own feelings
  10. 10.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  11. 11.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or say why it matters? (a) name your feeling (b) say why it matters
  12. 12.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  13. 13.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or give your reason? (a) say when it happens (b) give your reason
  14. 14.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or say when it happens? (a) say how you feel (b) say when it happens
  15. 15.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  16. 16.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  17. 17.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  18. 18.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
  19. 19.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You keep messing up my things!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  20. 20.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they hide feelings (b) they don’t attack (c) they sound louder (d) they win the fight
  21. 21.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  22. 22.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  23. 23.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or say why it matters? (a) name the action (b) say why it matters
  24. 24.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) upset (b) hungry (c) sleepy (d) happy
  25. 25.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say why it matters? (a) say what you would like (b) say why it matters
  26. 26.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
  27. 27.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or give your reason? (a) ask for a change (b) give your reason
  28. 28.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or say why it matters? (a) say how you feel (b) say why it matters
  29. 29.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  30. 30.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say why it matters? (a) say when it happens (b) say why it matters
  31. 31.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You always take my stuff!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  32. 32.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
  33. 33.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
  34. 34.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say why it matters? (a) ask for a change (b) say why it matters
  35. 35.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) a loud sigh (b) a threat (c) a list of faults (d) what you would like
  36. 36.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or name your feeling? (a) name the action (b) name your feeling
  37. 37.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say when it happens? (a) say why it matters (b) say when it happens
  38. 38.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
  39. 39.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You never listen!” (b) “You ignore me!” (c) “I feel left out.” (d) “You’re so rude!”
  40. 40.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or say what you would like? (a) name the action (b) say what you would like

Answer key

  1. False
  2. name your feeling
  3. True
  4. step 1
  5. an “I” statement
  6. False
  7. “Thanks for listening.”
  8. an “I” statement
  9. your own feelings
  10. True
  11. name your feeling
  12. an “I” statement
  13. say when it happens
  14. say how you feel
  15. False
  16. an “I” statement
  17. True
  18. step 1
  19. a blaming “you” line
  20. they don’t attack
  21. a blaming “you” line
  22. False
  23. name the action
  24. upset
  25. say why it matters
  26. step 2
  27. give your reason
  28. say how you feel
  29. an “I” statement
  30. say when it happens
  31. a blaming “you” line
  32. step 3
  33. step 4
  34. say why it matters
  35. what you would like
  36. name your feeling
  37. say when it happens
  38. step 3
  39. “I feel left out.”
  40. name the action

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