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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 375 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  2. 2.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say what you would like? (a) give your reason (b) say what you would like
  3. 3.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they don’t attack (b) they sound louder (c) they win the fight (d) they hide feelings
  4. 4.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  5. 5.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  6. 6.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  7. 7.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You’re so annoying with that music!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  8. 8.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  9. 9.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) happy (b) hungry (c) sleepy (d) upset
  10. 10.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say why it matters? (a) say what you would like (b) say why it matters
  11. 11.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or give your reason? (a) say what you would like (b) give your reason
  12. 12.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
  13. 13.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “Too late.” (b) “Thanks for listening.” (c) “Whatever.” (d) “You should be sorry!”
  14. 14.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are so careless and late!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  15. 15.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  16. 16.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
  17. 17.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  18. 18.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You ignore me!” (b) “I feel left out.” (c) “You’re so rude!” (d) “You never listen!”
  19. 19.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say when it happens? (a) say why it matters (b) say when it happens
  20. 20.True or false: “You always take my stuff!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  21. 21.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say when it happens? (a) give your reason (b) say when it happens
  22. 22.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  23. 23.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or ask for a change? (a) say why it matters (b) ask for a change
  24. 24.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say how you feel? (a) say when it happens (b) say how you feel
  25. 25.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  26. 26.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or give your reason? (a) ask for a change (b) give your reason
  27. 27.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  28. 28.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say what you would like? (a) say why it matters (b) say what you would like
  29. 29.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
  30. 30.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  31. 31.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
  32. 32.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
  33. 33.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say why it matters? (a) say when it happens (b) say why it matters
  34. 34.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
  35. 35.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
  36. 36.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  37. 37.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or name the action? (a) give your reason (b) name the action
  38. 38.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You always take my stuff!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  39. 39.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You keep messing up my things!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  40. 40.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line

Answer key

  1. False
  2. give your reason
  3. they don’t attack
  4. True
  5. False
  6. True
  7. a blaming “you” line
  8. an “I” statement
  9. upset
  10. say why it matters
  11. give your reason
  12. step 4
  13. “Thanks for listening.”
  14. a blaming “you” line
  15. True
  16. step 1
  17. an “I” statement
  18. “I feel left out.”
  19. say when it happens
  20. False
  21. say when it happens
  22. an “I” statement
  23. say why it matters
  24. say how you feel
  25. an “I” statement
  26. give your reason
  27. an “I” statement
  28. say why it matters
  29. step 1
  30. True
  31. step 4
  32. step 3
  33. say when it happens
  34. step 2
  35. step 3
  36. an “I” statement
  37. name the action
  38. a blaming “you” line
  39. a blaming “you” line
  40. a blaming “you” line

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