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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 384 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
  2. 2.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  3. 3.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
  4. 4.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) the other’s faults (b) old fights (c) the weather (d) your own feelings
  5. 5.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or ask for a change? (a) say why it matters (b) ask for a change
  6. 6.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  7. 7.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  8. 8.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
  9. 9.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are mean. Stop laughing!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  10. 10.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) happy (b) sleepy (c) hungry (d) upset
  11. 11.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  12. 12.True or false: “You always take my stuff!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  13. 13.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You’re so rude!” (b) “I feel left out.” (c) “You ignore me!” (d) “You never listen!”
  14. 14.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
  15. 15.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or give your reason? (a) say how you feel (b) give your reason
  16. 16.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You always take my stuff!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  17. 17.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  18. 18.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  19. 19.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  20. 20.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  21. 21.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “Whatever.” (b) “Too late.” (c) “Thanks for listening.” (d) “You should be sorry!”
  22. 22.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  23. 23.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or give your reason? (a) ask for a change (b) give your reason
  24. 24.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  25. 25.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
  26. 26.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say how you feel? (a) say why it matters (b) say how you feel
  27. 27.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or say when it happens? (a) say how you feel (b) say when it happens
  28. 28.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they sound louder (b) they win the fight (c) they don’t attack (d) they hide feelings
  29. 29.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  30. 30.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  31. 31.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or ask for a change? (a) name the action (b) ask for a change
  32. 32.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say what you would like? (a) say when it happens (b) say what you would like
  33. 33.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) a loud sigh (b) a threat (c) a list of faults (d) what you would like
  34. 34.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  35. 35.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say how you feel? (a) give your reason (b) say how you feel
  36. 36.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  37. 37.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  38. 38.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or give your reason? (a) name the action (b) give your reason
  39. 39.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  40. 40.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say why it matters? (a) ask for a change (b) say why it matters

Answer key

  1. step 2
  2. False
  3. step 4
  4. your own feelings
  5. say why it matters
  6. an “I” statement
  7. an “I” statement
  8. step 3
  9. a blaming “you” line
  10. upset
  11. False
  12. False
  13. “I feel left out.”
  14. step 4
  15. say how you feel
  16. a blaming “you” line
  17. True
  18. a blaming “you” line
  19. an “I” statement
  20. True
  21. “Thanks for listening.”
  22. False
  23. give your reason
  24. True
  25. step 3
  26. say how you feel
  27. say how you feel
  28. they don’t attack
  29. False
  30. False
  31. name the action
  32. say when it happens
  33. what you would like
  34. an “I” statement
  35. say how you feel
  36. False
  37. False
  38. name the action
  39. True
  40. say why it matters

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