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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 505 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or give your reason? (a) say what you would like (b) give your reason
  2. 2.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “I feel left out.” (b) “You ignore me!” (c) “You’re so rude!” (d) “You never listen!”
  3. 3.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
  4. 4.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “You should be sorry!” (b) “Whatever.” (c) “Too late.” (d) “Thanks for listening.”
  5. 5.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  6. 6.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
  7. 7.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  8. 8.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
  9. 9.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are mean. Stop laughing!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  10. 10.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You always take my stuff!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  11. 11.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say when it happens? (a) say why it matters (b) say when it happens
  12. 12.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  13. 13.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say how you feel? (a) say what you would like (b) say how you feel
  14. 14.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  15. 15.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  16. 16.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say why it matters? (a) say what you would like (b) say why it matters
  17. 17.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
  18. 18.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
  19. 19.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  20. 20.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are so careless and late!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  21. 21.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) happy (b) sleepy (c) hungry (d) upset
  22. 22.True or false: “You always take my stuff!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  23. 23.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
  24. 24.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  25. 25.True or false: “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  26. 26.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  27. 27.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or say when it happens? (a) say how you feel (b) say when it happens
  28. 28.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or give your reason? (a) say when it happens (b) give your reason
  29. 29.True or false: “You cheat every time!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  30. 30.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  31. 31.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they don’t attack (b) they hide feelings (c) they win the fight (d) they sound louder
  32. 32.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or say what you would like? (a) name the action (b) say what you would like
  33. 33.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  34. 34.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  35. 35.True or false: “You keep messing up my things!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  36. 36.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say what you would like? (a) give your reason (b) say what you would like
  37. 37.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or name the action? (a) give your reason (b) name the action
  38. 38.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  39. 39.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or ask for a change? (a) say when it happens (b) ask for a change
  40. 40.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True

Answer key

  1. give your reason
  2. “I feel left out.”
  3. step 1
  4. “Thanks for listening.”
  5. an “I” statement
  6. step 2
  7. False
  8. step 2
  9. a blaming “you” line
  10. a blaming “you” line
  11. say when it happens
  12. True
  13. say how you feel
  14. False
  15. an “I” statement
  16. say why it matters
  17. step 4
  18. step 4
  19. an “I” statement
  20. a blaming “you” line
  21. upset
  22. True
  23. step 1
  24. True
  25. True
  26. True
  27. say how you feel
  28. say when it happens
  29. False
  30. False
  31. they don’t attack
  32. name the action
  33. False
  34. a blaming “you” line
  35. False
  36. give your reason
  37. name the action
  38. an “I” statement
  39. say when it happens
  40. True

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