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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 672 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.True or false: “You keep messing up my things!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  2. 2.True or false: “You always take my stuff!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  3. 3.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  4. 4.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
  5. 5.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  6. 6.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
  7. 7.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
  8. 8.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) sleepy (b) happy (c) upset (d) hungry
  9. 9.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they hide feelings (b) they win the fight (c) they sound louder (d) they don’t attack
  10. 10.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
  11. 11.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You always take my stuff!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  12. 12.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “Whatever.” (b) “You should be sorry!” (c) “Too late.” (d) “Thanks for listening.”
  13. 13.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  14. 14.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  15. 15.True or false: “You cheat every time!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  16. 16.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  17. 17.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say what you would like? (a) give your reason (b) say what you would like
  18. 18.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  19. 19.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say how you feel? (a) say when it happens (b) say how you feel
  20. 20.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
  21. 21.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say when it happens? (a) ask for a change (b) say when it happens
  22. 22.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say why it matters? (a) ask for a change (b) say why it matters
  23. 23.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or give your reason? (a) say what you would like (b) give your reason
  24. 24.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  25. 25.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or name your feeling? (a) say what you would like (b) name your feeling
  26. 26.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or name the action? (a) say why it matters (b) name the action
  27. 27.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You never listen!” (b) “I feel left out.” (c) “You’re so rude!” (d) “You ignore me!”
  28. 28.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  29. 29.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or say what you would like? (a) name the action (b) say what you would like
  30. 30.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or ask for a change? (a) name the action (b) ask for a change
  31. 31.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You keep messing up my things!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  32. 32.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or ask for a change? (a) name your feeling (b) ask for a change
  33. 33.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or give your reason? (a) ask for a change (b) give your reason
  34. 34.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  35. 35.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You’re so annoying with that music!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  36. 36.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  37. 37.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or name the action? (a) say what you would like (b) name the action
  38. 38.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  39. 39.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  40. 40.True or false: “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False

Answer key

  1. True
  2. False
  3. an “I” statement
  4. step 3
  5. True
  6. step 3
  7. step 1
  8. upset
  9. they don’t attack
  10. step 4
  11. a blaming “you” line
  12. “Thanks for listening.”
  13. True
  14. False
  15. False
  16. an “I” statement
  17. give your reason
  18. an “I” statement
  19. say how you feel
  20. step 2
  21. say when it happens
  22. say why it matters
  23. give your reason
  24. True
  25. name your feeling
  26. name the action
  27. “I feel left out.”
  28. a blaming “you” line
  29. name the action
  30. name the action
  31. a blaming “you” line
  32. name your feeling
  33. give your reason
  34. False
  35. a blaming “you” line
  36. False
  37. name the action
  38. True
  39. True
  40. False

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