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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 725 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  2. 2.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
  3. 3.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
  4. 4.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  5. 5.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say how you feel? (a) say why it matters (b) say how you feel
  6. 6.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You always take my stuff!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  7. 7.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say what you would like? (a) give your reason (b) say what you would like
  8. 8.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  9. 9.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
  10. 10.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  11. 11.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  12. 12.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  13. 13.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You’re so annoying with that music!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  14. 14.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) old fights (b) the weather (c) the other’s faults (d) your own feelings
  15. 15.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they win the fight (b) they sound louder (c) they don’t attack (d) they hide feelings
  16. 16.True or false: “You never include me!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  17. 17.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
  18. 18.True or false: “You cheat every time!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  19. 19.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) a list of faults (b) a loud sigh (c) what you would like (d) a threat
  20. 20.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or name the action? (a) say what you would like (b) name the action
  21. 21.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
  22. 22.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say when it happens? (a) say what you would like (b) say when it happens
  23. 23.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say when it happens? (a) say why it matters (b) say when it happens
  24. 24.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say why it matters? (a) say what you would like (b) say why it matters
  25. 25.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  26. 26.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) sleepy (b) upset (c) happy (d) hungry
  27. 27.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “Whatever.” (b) “You should be sorry!” (c) “Too late.” (d) “Thanks for listening.”
  28. 28.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  29. 29.True or false: “You cheat every time!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  30. 30.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  31. 31.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are mean. Stop laughing!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  32. 32.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or name the action? (a) give your reason (b) name the action
  33. 33.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or name the action? (a) say why it matters (b) name the action
  34. 34.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say why it matters? (a) ask for a change (b) say why it matters
  35. 35.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  36. 36.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or give your reason? (a) say when it happens (b) give your reason
  37. 37.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  38. 38.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
  39. 39.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or name your feeling? (a) say what you would like (b) name your feeling
  40. 40.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say how you feel? (a) ask for a change (b) say how you feel

Answer key

  1. an “I” statement
  2. step 1
  3. step 2
  4. an “I” statement
  5. say how you feel
  6. a blaming “you” line
  7. give your reason
  8. a blaming “you” line
  9. step 3
  10. False
  11. False
  12. True
  13. a blaming “you” line
  14. your own feelings
  15. they don’t attack
  16. False
  17. step 4
  18. False
  19. what you would like
  20. name the action
  21. step 1
  22. say when it happens
  23. say when it happens
  24. say why it matters
  25. True
  26. upset
  27. “Thanks for listening.”
  28. False
  29. True
  30. a blaming “you” line
  31. a blaming “you” line
  32. name the action
  33. name the action
  34. say why it matters
  35. an “I” statement
  36. say when it happens
  37. False
  38. step 3
  39. name your feeling
  40. say how you feel

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