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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 796 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  2. 2.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or name your feeling? (a) give your reason (b) name your feeling
  3. 3.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
  4. 4.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or say when it happens? (a) say how you feel (b) say when it happens
  5. 5.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) old fights (b) the other’s faults (c) the weather (d) your own feelings
  6. 6.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  7. 7.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they sound louder (b) they don’t attack (c) they hide feelings (d) they win the fight
  8. 8.True or false: “You cheat every time!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  9. 9.True or false: “You always take my stuff!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  10. 10.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) happy (b) upset (c) hungry (d) sleepy
  11. 11.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  12. 12.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or give your reason? (a) say when it happens (b) give your reason
  13. 13.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
  14. 14.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  15. 15.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
  16. 16.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  17. 17.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  18. 18.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  19. 19.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
  20. 20.True or false: “You keep messing up my things!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  21. 21.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say how you feel? (a) give your reason (b) say how you feel
  22. 22.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or ask for a change? (a) say why it matters (b) ask for a change
  23. 23.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  24. 24.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say what you would like? (a) say when it happens (b) say what you would like
  25. 25.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  26. 26.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  27. 27.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say when it happens? (a) say why it matters (b) say when it happens
  28. 28.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You ignore me!” (b) “You’re so rude!” (c) “I feel left out.” (d) “You never listen!”
  29. 29.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “Thanks for listening.” (b) “Too late.” (c) “Whatever.” (d) “You should be sorry!”
  30. 30.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  31. 31.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  32. 32.True or false: “You never include me!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  33. 33.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  34. 34.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or give your reason? (a) say what you would like (b) give your reason
  35. 35.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  36. 36.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or give your reason? (a) name the action (b) give your reason
  37. 37.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
  38. 38.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or name your feeling? (a) say what you would like (b) name your feeling
  39. 39.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say how you feel? (a) say why it matters (b) say how you feel
  40. 40.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or give your reason? (a) name your feeling (b) give your reason

Answer key

  1. False
  2. name your feeling
  3. step 3
  4. say how you feel
  5. your own feelings
  6. True
  7. they don’t attack
  8. True
  9. False
  10. upset
  11. an “I” statement
  12. say when it happens
  13. step 1
  14. True
  15. step 2
  16. True
  17. a blaming “you” line
  18. an “I” statement
  19. step 3
  20. False
  21. say how you feel
  22. say why it matters
  23. a blaming “you” line
  24. say when it happens
  25. an “I” statement
  26. True
  27. say when it happens
  28. “I feel left out.”
  29. “Thanks for listening.”
  30. True
  31. False
  32. False
  33. an “I” statement
  34. give your reason
  35. True
  36. name the action
  37. step 4
  38. name your feeling
  39. say how you feel
  40. name your feeling

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