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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 814 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are mean. Stop laughing!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  2. 2.True or false: “You cheat every time!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  3. 3.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
  4. 4.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say what you would like? (a) give your reason (b) say what you would like
  5. 5.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say how you feel? (a) say why it matters (b) say how you feel
  6. 6.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You’re so rude!” (b) “You never listen!” (c) “You ignore me!” (d) “I feel left out.”
  7. 7.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are so careless and late!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  8. 8.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
  9. 9.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they hide feelings (b) they sound louder (c) they don’t attack (d) they win the fight
  10. 10.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) a loud sigh (b) a list of faults (c) what you would like (d) a threat
  11. 11.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say how you feel? (a) say when it happens (b) say how you feel
  12. 12.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You keep messing up my things!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  13. 13.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  14. 14.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  15. 15.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “You should be sorry!” (b) “Thanks for listening.” (c) “Too late.” (d) “Whatever.”
  16. 16.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or ask for a change? (a) say why it matters (b) ask for a change
  17. 17.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or ask for a change? (a) give your reason (b) ask for a change
  18. 18.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  19. 19.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  20. 20.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  21. 21.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say why it matters? (a) ask for a change (b) say why it matters
  22. 22.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
  23. 23.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say when it happens? (a) ask for a change (b) say when it happens
  24. 24.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or name your feeling? (a) name the action (b) name your feeling
  25. 25.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  26. 26.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
  27. 27.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say why it matters? (a) say what you would like (b) say why it matters
  28. 28.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) the weather (b) the other’s faults (c) old fights (d) your own feelings
  29. 29.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or say when it happens? (a) name your feeling (b) say when it happens
  30. 30.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  31. 31.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
  32. 32.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  33. 33.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say when it happens? (a) give your reason (b) say when it happens
  34. 34.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  35. 35.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
  36. 36.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
  37. 37.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say what you would like? (a) say when it happens (b) say what you would like
  38. 38.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or name the action? (a) say what you would like (b) name the action
  39. 39.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  40. 40.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True

Answer key

  1. a blaming “you” line
  2. False
  3. step 4
  4. give your reason
  5. say how you feel
  6. “I feel left out.”
  7. a blaming “you” line
  8. step 1
  9. they don’t attack
  10. what you would like
  11. say how you feel
  12. a blaming “you” line
  13. an “I” statement
  14. True
  15. “Thanks for listening.”
  16. say why it matters
  17. give your reason
  18. True
  19. an “I” statement
  20. False
  21. say why it matters
  22. step 2
  23. say when it happens
  24. name your feeling
  25. an “I” statement
  26. step 4
  27. say why it matters
  28. your own feelings
  29. name your feeling
  30. False
  31. step 3
  32. an “I” statement
  33. say when it happens
  34. True
  35. step 3
  36. step 2
  37. say when it happens
  38. name the action
  39. a blaming “you” line
  40. False

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