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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 836 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.True or false: “You never include me!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  2. 2.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say why it matters? (a) say what you would like (b) say why it matters
  3. 3.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “Whatever.” (b) “Too late.” (c) “Thanks for listening.” (d) “You should be sorry!”
  4. 4.True or false: “You always take my stuff!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  5. 5.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You’re so rude!” (b) “You never listen!” (c) “I feel left out.” (d) “You ignore me!”
  6. 6.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) happy (b) hungry (c) sleepy (d) upset
  7. 7.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  8. 8.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  9. 9.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  10. 10.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or say when it happens? (a) say how you feel (b) say when it happens
  11. 11.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
  12. 12.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
  13. 13.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
  14. 14.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  15. 15.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) a threat (b) a list of faults (c) a loud sigh (d) what you would like
  16. 16.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  17. 17.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  18. 18.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or give your reason? (a) say what you would like (b) give your reason
  19. 19.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  20. 20.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  21. 21.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are so careless and late!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  22. 22.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say what you would like? (a) say why it matters (b) say what you would like
  23. 23.True or false: “You keep messing up my things!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  24. 24.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they sound louder (b) they hide feelings (c) they win the fight (d) they don’t attack
  25. 25.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  26. 26.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or give your reason? (a) say when it happens (b) give your reason
  27. 27.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You always take my stuff!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  28. 28.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
  29. 29.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  30. 30.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say how you feel? (a) say when it happens (b) say how you feel
  31. 31.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
  32. 32.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say what you would like? (a) give your reason (b) say what you would like
  33. 33.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  34. 34.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say when it happens? (a) say why it matters (b) say when it happens
  35. 35.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  36. 36.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say how you feel? (a) say what you would like (b) say how you feel
  37. 37.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  38. 38.True or false: “You cheat every time!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  39. 39.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You keep messing up my things!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  40. 40.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say what you would like? (a) say when it happens (b) say what you would like

Answer key

  1. False
  2. say why it matters
  3. “Thanks for listening.”
  4. False
  5. “I feel left out.”
  6. upset
  7. True
  8. an “I” statement
  9. an “I” statement
  10. say how you feel
  11. step 2
  12. step 3
  13. step 4
  14. False
  15. what you would like
  16. an “I” statement
  17. False
  18. give your reason
  19. an “I” statement
  20. an “I” statement
  21. a blaming “you” line
  22. say why it matters
  23. False
  24. they don’t attack
  25. True
  26. say when it happens
  27. a blaming “you” line
  28. step 4
  29. False
  30. say how you feel
  31. step 1
  32. give your reason
  33. True
  34. say when it happens
  35. an “I” statement
  36. say how you feel
  37. an “I” statement
  38. False
  39. a blaming “you” line
  40. say when it happens

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