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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 921 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say what you would like? (a) say when it happens (b) say what you would like
  2. 2.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say why it matters? (a) say what you would like (b) say why it matters
  3. 3.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  4. 4.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
  5. 5.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  6. 6.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  7. 7.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say why it matters? (a) say when it happens (b) say why it matters
  8. 8.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You ignore me!” (b) “You never listen!” (c) “You’re so rude!” (d) “I feel left out.”
  9. 9.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or say why it matters? (a) name the action (b) say why it matters
  10. 10.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or name the action? (a) name your feeling (b) name the action
  11. 11.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say when it happens? (a) give your reason (b) say when it happens
  12. 12.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  13. 13.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say why it matters? (a) ask for a change (b) say why it matters
  14. 14.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  15. 15.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or name your feeling? (a) say why it matters (b) name your feeling
  16. 16.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or ask for a change? (a) name the action (b) ask for a change
  17. 17.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or say why it matters? (a) name your feeling (b) say why it matters
  18. 18.True or false: “You always take my stuff!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  19. 19.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or name the action? (a) say how you feel (b) name the action
  20. 20.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  21. 21.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  22. 22.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say how you feel? (a) say why it matters (b) say how you feel
  23. 23.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  24. 24.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
  25. 25.True or false: “You cheat every time!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  26. 26.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or say when it happens? (a) say how you feel (b) say when it happens
  27. 27.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or name your feeling? (a) name the action (b) name your feeling
  28. 28.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) a threat (b) a list of faults (c) a loud sigh (d) what you would like
  29. 29.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they don’t attack (b) they sound louder (c) they win the fight (d) they hide feelings
  30. 30.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or say what you would like? (a) name the action (b) say what you would like
  31. 31.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
  32. 32.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You always take my stuff!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  33. 33.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
  34. 34.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “Too late.” (b) “Whatever.” (c) “Thanks for listening.” (d) “You should be sorry!”
  35. 35.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) hungry (b) sleepy (c) happy (d) upset
  36. 36.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
  37. 37.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or give your reason? (a) ask for a change (b) give your reason
  38. 38.True or false: “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  39. 39.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  40. 40.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 4

Answer key

  1. say when it happens
  2. say why it matters
  3. an “I” statement
  4. step 1
  5. a blaming “you” line
  6. an “I” statement
  7. say when it happens
  8. “I feel left out.”
  9. name the action
  10. name your feeling
  11. say when it happens
  12. False
  13. say why it matters
  14. an “I” statement
  15. name your feeling
  16. name the action
  17. name your feeling
  18. True
  19. say how you feel
  20. an “I” statement
  21. False
  22. say how you feel
  23. False
  24. step 3
  25. True
  26. say how you feel
  27. name your feeling
  28. what you would like
  29. they don’t attack
  30. name the action
  31. step 2
  32. a blaming “you” line
  33. step 2
  34. “Thanks for listening.”
  35. upset
  36. step 1
  37. give your reason
  38. True
  39. an “I” statement
  40. step 4

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