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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 949 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
  2. 2.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say how you feel? (a) give your reason (b) say how you feel
  3. 3.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
  4. 4.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say when it happens? (a) say what you would like (b) say when it happens
  5. 5.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
  6. 6.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  7. 7.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  8. 8.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
  9. 9.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or ask for a change? (a) say why it matters (b) ask for a change
  10. 10.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they sound louder (b) they win the fight (c) they don’t attack (d) they hide feelings
  11. 11.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or name the action? (a) say how you feel (b) name the action
  12. 12.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  13. 13.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say how you feel? (a) say what you would like (b) say how you feel
  14. 14.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) the other’s faults (b) the weather (c) your own feelings (d) old fights
  15. 15.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or say why it matters? (a) name the action (b) say why it matters
  16. 16.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are so careless and late!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  17. 17.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) what you would like (b) a threat (c) a list of faults (d) a loud sigh
  18. 18.True or false: “You never include me!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  19. 19.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You’re so annoying with that music!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  20. 20.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or say when it happens? (a) name your feeling (b) say when it happens
  21. 21.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  22. 22.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or ask for a change? (a) name the action (b) ask for a change
  23. 23.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  24. 24.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  25. 25.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  26. 26.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You never listen!” (b) “You ignore me!” (c) “You’re so rude!” (d) “I feel left out.”
  27. 27.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say what you would like? (a) say when it happens (b) say what you would like
  28. 28.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say what you would like? (a) say why it matters (b) say what you would like
  29. 29.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
  30. 30.True or false: “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  31. 31.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or give your reason? (a) say when it happens (b) give your reason
  32. 32.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  33. 33.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
  34. 34.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or give your reason? (a) say how you feel (b) give your reason
  35. 35.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say why it matters? (a) say what you would like (b) say why it matters
  36. 36.True or false: “You cheat every time!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  37. 37.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  38. 38.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
  39. 39.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or say what you would like? (a) name the action (b) say what you would like
  40. 40.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False

Answer key

  1. step 2
  2. say how you feel
  3. step 4
  4. say when it happens
  5. step 3
  6. an “I” statement
  7. an “I” statement
  8. step 1
  9. say why it matters
  10. they don’t attack
  11. say how you feel
  12. an “I” statement
  13. say how you feel
  14. your own feelings
  15. name the action
  16. a blaming “you” line
  17. what you would like
  18. False
  19. a blaming “you” line
  20. name your feeling
  21. True
  22. name the action
  23. False
  24. True
  25. an “I” statement
  26. “I feel left out.”
  27. say when it happens
  28. say why it matters
  29. step 4
  30. False
  31. say when it happens
  32. True
  33. step 2
  34. say how you feel
  35. say why it matters
  36. True
  37. an “I” statement
  38. step 3
  39. name the action
  40. True

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