Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: choose a fix together or list possible fixes? (a) choose a fix together (b) list possible fixes
- 2.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: take a deep breath? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
- 3.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) listening without blame (b) using a calm voice (c) focusing on the problem (d) walking off in anger
- 4.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or let each person speak? (a) find options (b) let each person speak
- 5.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: finding a middle way? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 6.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or list possible fixes? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) list possible fixes
- 7.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: listen to both sides or cool off for a minute? (a) listen to both sides (b) cool off for a minute
- 8.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: taking sides at once? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 9.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) shouting back (b) using a calm voice (c) saying “I feel…” (d) finding a middle way
- 10.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: hear each side fully or cool off for a minute? (a) hear each side fully (b) cool off for a minute
- 11.True or false: “using a calm voice” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 12.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or shake hands on a plan? (a) find options (b) shake hands on a plan
- 13.🗣️ Which line helps calm a conflict? (a) “Stop being silly!” (b) “I don’t care.” (c) “You are always wrong.” (d) “Let’s hear both sides.”
- 14.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: using a calm voice? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 15.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: find options? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
- 16.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: cool off for a minute or shake hands on a plan? (a) cool off for a minute (b) shake hands on a plan
- 17.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: name-calling? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 18.🧩 Two teammates are arguing loudly over who presents. What is the first step? (a) pick a winner fast (b) ignore them (c) help them calm down (d) take a vote at once
- 19.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) shouting back (b) bringing up old fights (c) spreading gossip (d) finding a middle way
- 20.True or false: “shouting back” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 21.True or false: “bringing up old fights” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 22.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: let each person speak or cool off for a minute? (a) let each person speak (b) cool off for a minute
- 23.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: shake hands on a plan? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
- 24.True or false: “bringing up old fights” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 25.True or false: “taking sides at once” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 26.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: focusing on the problem? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 27.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) name-calling (b) focusing on the problem (c) using a calm voice (d) finding a middle way
- 28.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) focusing on the problem (b) listening without blame (c) finding a middle way (d) walking off in anger
- 29.True or false: “finding a middle way” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 30.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: choose a fix together? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
- 31.True or false: “focusing on the problem” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 32.True or false: “listening without blame” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 33.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) taking sides at once (b) shouting back (c) apologising sincerely (d) spreading gossip
- 34.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or cool off for a minute? (a) agree on a plan (b) cool off for a minute
- 35.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) name-calling (c) finding a middle way (d) using a calm voice
- 36.✅ How does solving a conflict end? (a) with a winner and loser (b) with a fight (c) with silence (d) with an agreed plan
- 37.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or choose a fix together? (a) list possible fixes (b) choose a fix together
- 38.True or false: “apologising sincerely” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 39.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: brainstorm solutions? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
- 40.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) name-calling (b) saying “I feel…” (c) shouting back (d) walking off in anger
Answer key
- list possible fixes
- step 1
- walking off in anger
- let each person speak
- helps solve it
- list possible fixes
- cool off for a minute
- makes it worse
- shouting back
- cool off for a minute
- False
- find options
- “Let’s hear both sides.”
- helps solve it
- step 3
- cool off for a minute
- makes it worse
- help them calm down
- finding a middle way
- True
- True
- cool off for a minute
- step 4
- False
- False
- helps solve it
- name-calling
- walking off in anger
- True
- step 4
- True
- False
- apologising sincerely
- cool off for a minute
- name-calling
- with an agreed plan
- list possible fixes
- False
- step 3
- saying “I feel…”
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