Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: walking off in anger? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 2.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: list possible fixes? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
- 3.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: calm down? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
- 4.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: hear each side fully or list possible fixes? (a) hear each side fully (b) list possible fixes
- 5.✅ How does solving a conflict end? (a) with an agreed plan (b) with silence (c) with a fight (d) with a winner and loser
- 6.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) shouting back (b) name-calling (c) apologising sincerely (d) spreading gossip
- 7.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) bringing up old fights (b) walking off in anger (c) shouting back (d) listening without blame
- 8.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) bringing up old fights (b) name-calling (c) apologising sincerely (d) spreading gossip
- 9.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: calm down or hear each side fully? (a) calm down (b) hear each side fully
- 10.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: let each person speak? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
- 11.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: take a deep breath? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
- 12.True or false: “finding a middle way” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 13.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: using a calm voice? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 14.True or false: “walking off in anger” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 15.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: finding a middle way? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 16.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) using a calm voice (b) listening without blame (c) saying “I feel…” (d) taking sides at once
- 17.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: apologising sincerely? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 18.🗣️ Which line helps calm a conflict? (a) “I don’t care.” (b) “Stop being silly!” (c) “Let’s hear both sides.” (d) “You are always wrong.”
- 19.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: listening without blame? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 20.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) spreading gossip (b) shouting back (c) name-calling (d) listening without blame
- 21.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: find options? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
- 22.👂 Why listen to both sides in a conflict? (a) to find who to blame (b) to waste time (c) to pick a winner (d) to understand fully
- 23.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) focusing on the problem (b) name-calling (c) walking off in anger (d) shouting back
- 24.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) walking off in anger (c) apologising sincerely (d) using a calm voice
- 25.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: listen to both sides? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
- 26.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: let each person speak or list possible fixes? (a) let each person speak (b) list possible fixes
- 27.🤝 Two members want different poster designs. Which is a fair option? (a) scrap the project (b) use the louder one’s (c) the leader picks alone (d) combine the best parts
- 28.🧩 Two teammates are arguing loudly over who presents. What is the first step? (a) ignore them (b) take a vote at once (c) pick a winner fast (d) help them calm down
- 29.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: focusing on the problem? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 30.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: listen to both sides or cool off for a minute? (a) listen to both sides (b) cool off for a minute
- 31.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: cool off for a minute or brainstorm solutions? (a) cool off for a minute (b) brainstorm solutions
- 32.True or false: “spreading gossip” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 33.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: cool off for a minute? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
- 34.True or false: “shouting back” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 35.True or false: “finding a middle way” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 36.True or false: “saying “I feel…”” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 37.True or false: “focusing on the problem” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 38.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) apologising sincerely (b) finding a middle way (c) shouting back (d) saying “I feel…”
- 39.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: hear each side fully or shake hands on a plan? (a) hear each side fully (b) shake hands on a plan
- 40.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) using a calm voice (b) finding a middle way (c) listening without blame (d) name-calling
Answer key
- makes it worse
- step 3
- step 1
- hear each side fully
- with an agreed plan
- apologising sincerely
- listening without blame
- apologising sincerely
- calm down
- step 2
- step 1
- True
- helps solve it
- False
- helps solve it
- taking sides at once
- helps solve it
- “Let’s hear both sides.”
- helps solve it
- listening without blame
- step 3
- to understand fully
- focusing on the problem
- walking off in anger
- step 2
- let each person speak
- combine the best parts
- help them calm down
- helps solve it
- cool off for a minute
- cool off for a minute
- True
- step 1
- True
- False
- True
- True
- shouting back
- hear each side fully
- name-calling
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