Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) finding a middle way (b) walking off in anger (c) shouting back (d) bringing up old fights
- 2.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: listen to both sides? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
- 3.🤝 Two members want different poster designs. Which is a fair option? (a) use the louder one’s (b) combine the best parts (c) scrap the project (d) the leader picks alone
- 4.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) bringing up old fights (b) shouting back (c) taking sides at once (d) apologising sincerely
- 5.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: spreading gossip? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 6.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: apologising sincerely? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 7.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) focusing on the problem (c) using a calm voice (d) name-calling
- 8.True or false: “taking sides at once” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 9.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: name-calling? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 10.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: choose a fix together? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
- 11.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: list possible fixes? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
- 12.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: cool off for a minute or let each person speak? (a) cool off for a minute (b) let each person speak
- 13.True or false: “focusing on the problem” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 14.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) focusing on the problem (c) shouting back (d) listening without blame
- 15.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: bringing up old fights? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 16.True or false: “saying “I feel…”” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 17.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: take a deep breath? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
- 18.✅ How does solving a conflict end? (a) with silence (b) with a winner and loser (c) with an agreed plan (d) with a fight
- 19.True or false: “shouting back” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 20.🧩 Two teammates are arguing loudly over who presents. What is the first step? (a) pick a winner fast (b) help them calm down (c) take a vote at once (d) ignore them
- 21.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) name-calling (b) shouting back (c) focusing on the problem (d) bringing up old fights
- 22.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: calm down? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
- 23.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: brainstorm solutions or agree on a plan? (a) brainstorm solutions (b) agree on a plan
- 24.True or false: “shouting back” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 25.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) bringing up old fights (b) finding a middle way (c) listening without blame (d) apologising sincerely
- 26.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: agree on a plan? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
- 27.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or brainstorm solutions? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) brainstorm solutions
- 28.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) finding a middle way (b) saying “I feel…” (c) focusing on the problem (d) shouting back
- 29.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: saying “I feel…”? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 30.True or false: “bringing up old fights” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 31.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: let each person speak? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
- 32.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or let each person speak? (a) find options (b) let each person speak
- 33.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) finding a middle way (b) focusing on the problem (c) walking off in anger (d) listening without blame
- 34.True or false: “name-calling” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 35.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: shouting back? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 36.👂 Why listen to both sides in a conflict? (a) to understand fully (b) to waste time (c) to pick a winner (d) to find who to blame
- 37.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) focusing on the problem (b) saying “I feel…” (c) spreading gossip (d) apologising sincerely
- 38.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) using a calm voice (b) focusing on the problem (c) spreading gossip (d) apologising sincerely
- 39.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) taking sides at once (b) bringing up old fights (c) spreading gossip (d) saying “I feel…”
- 40.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: using a calm voice? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
Answer key
- finding a middle way
- step 2
- combine the best parts
- apologising sincerely
- makes it worse
- helps solve it
- name-calling
- True
- makes it worse
- step 4
- step 3
- cool off for a minute
- True
- shouting back
- makes it worse
- False
- step 1
- with an agreed plan
- False
- help them calm down
- focusing on the problem
- step 1
- brainstorm solutions
- True
- bringing up old fights
- step 4
- brainstorm solutions
- shouting back
- helps solve it
- False
- step 2
- let each person speak
- walking off in anger
- False
- makes it worse
- to understand fully
- spreading gossip
- spreading gossip
- saying “I feel…”
- helps solve it
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