Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) bringing up old fights (b) using a calm voice (c) spreading gossip (d) shouting back
- 2.True or false: “spreading gossip” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 3.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) listening without blame (b) using a calm voice (c) shouting back (d) saying “I feel…”
- 4.True or false: “walking off in anger” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 5.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or shake hands on a plan? (a) list possible fixes (b) shake hands on a plan
- 6.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) taking sides at once (b) using a calm voice (c) saying “I feel…” (d) finding a middle way
- 7.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: let each person speak? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
- 8.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) walking off in anger (b) saying “I feel…” (c) bringing up old fights (d) shouting back
- 9.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or hear each side fully? (a) find options (b) hear each side fully
- 10.True or false: “focusing on the problem” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 11.👂 Why listen to both sides in a conflict? (a) to find who to blame (b) to understand fully (c) to pick a winner (d) to waste time
- 12.True or false: “name-calling” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 13.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: shouting back? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 14.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) taking sides at once (b) spreading gossip (c) focusing on the problem (d) bringing up old fights
- 15.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: calm down? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
- 16.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) taking sides at once (b) shouting back (c) bringing up old fights (d) using a calm voice
- 17.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) walking off in anger (b) taking sides at once (c) bringing up old fights (d) saying “I feel…”
- 18.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) bringing up old fights (b) shouting back (c) finding a middle way (d) taking sides at once
- 19.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: apologising sincerely? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 20.✅ How does solving a conflict end? (a) with an agreed plan (b) with a fight (c) with silence (d) with a winner and loser
- 21.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: name-calling? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 22.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: cool off for a minute or agree on a plan? (a) cool off for a minute (b) agree on a plan
- 23.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: list possible fixes? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
- 24.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: hear each side fully? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
- 25.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or calm down? (a) find options (b) calm down
- 26.True or false: “using a calm voice” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 27.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) finding a middle way (b) bringing up old fights (c) focusing on the problem (d) listening without blame
- 28.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: taking sides at once? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 29.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: calm down or hear each side fully? (a) calm down (b) hear each side fully
- 30.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) focusing on the problem (b) saying “I feel…” (c) apologising sincerely (d) walking off in anger
- 31.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or find options? (a) agree on a plan (b) find options
- 32.🧩 Two teammates are arguing loudly over who presents. What is the first step? (a) pick a winner fast (b) take a vote at once (c) help them calm down (d) ignore them
- 33.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) bringing up old fights (b) walking off in anger (c) taking sides at once (d) apologising sincerely
- 34.True or false: “saying “I feel…”” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 35.🤝 Two members want different poster designs. Which is a fair option? (a) use the louder one’s (b) scrap the project (c) the leader picks alone (d) combine the best parts
- 36.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: take a deep breath? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
- 37.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: let each person speak or shake hands on a plan? (a) let each person speak (b) shake hands on a plan
- 38.True or false: “taking sides at once” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 39.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: saying “I feel…”? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 40.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or choose a fix together? (a) list possible fixes (b) choose a fix together
Answer key
- using a calm voice
- False
- shouting back
- True
- list possible fixes
- taking sides at once
- step 2
- saying “I feel…”
- hear each side fully
- True
- to understand fully
- True
- makes it worse
- focusing on the problem
- step 1
- using a calm voice
- saying “I feel…”
- finding a middle way
- helps solve it
- with an agreed plan
- makes it worse
- cool off for a minute
- step 3
- step 2
- calm down
- True
- bringing up old fights
- makes it worse
- calm down
- walking off in anger
- find options
- help them calm down
- apologising sincerely
- False
- combine the best parts
- step 1
- let each person speak
- False
- helps solve it
- list possible fixes
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