Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: saying “I feel…”? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 2.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: hear each side fully? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
- 3.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) listening without blame (c) apologising sincerely (d) name-calling
- 4.True or false: “listening without blame” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 5.True or false: “finding a middle way” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 6.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: find options? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
- 7.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: brainstorm solutions or hear each side fully? (a) brainstorm solutions (b) hear each side fully
- 8.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or agree on a plan? (a) find options (b) agree on a plan
- 9.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or choose a fix together? (a) find options (b) choose a fix together
- 10.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) spreading gossip (b) walking off in anger (c) shouting back (d) using a calm voice
- 11.True or false: “name-calling” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 12.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: choose a fix together? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
- 13.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: hear each side fully or find options? (a) hear each side fully (b) find options
- 14.👂 Why listen to both sides in a conflict? (a) to understand fully (b) to pick a winner (c) to find who to blame (d) to waste time
- 15.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: choose a fix together or cool off for a minute? (a) choose a fix together (b) cool off for a minute
- 16.True or false: “using a calm voice” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 17.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: walking off in anger? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 18.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: spreading gossip? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 19.🧩 Two teammates are arguing loudly over who presents. What is the first step? (a) ignore them (b) pick a winner fast (c) take a vote at once (d) help them calm down
- 20.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: brainstorm solutions? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
- 21.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or calm down? (a) list possible fixes (b) calm down
- 22.True or false: “saying “I feel…”” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 23.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or calm down? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) calm down
- 24.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or let each person speak? (a) list possible fixes (b) let each person speak
- 25.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) using a calm voice (b) finding a middle way (c) shouting back (d) saying “I feel…”
- 26.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: listen to both sides? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
- 27.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) shouting back (c) apologising sincerely (d) using a calm voice
- 28.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: using a calm voice? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 29.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: finding a middle way? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 30.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: listening without blame? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 31.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: calm down? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
- 32.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) finding a middle way (b) spreading gossip (c) name-calling (d) bringing up old fights
- 33.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) finding a middle way (b) shouting back (c) taking sides at once (d) walking off in anger
- 34.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: name-calling? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 35.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: take a deep breath? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
- 36.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) using a calm voice (b) saying “I feel…” (c) finding a middle way (d) bringing up old fights
- 37.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or choose a fix together? (a) list possible fixes (b) choose a fix together
- 38.🤝 Two members want different poster designs. Which is a fair option? (a) scrap the project (b) the leader picks alone (c) combine the best parts (d) use the louder one’s
- 39.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) focusing on the problem (b) apologising sincerely (c) walking off in anger (d) saying “I feel…”
- 40.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: brainstorm solutions or choose a fix together? (a) brainstorm solutions (b) choose a fix together
Answer key
- helps solve it
- step 2
- name-calling
- True
- True
- step 3
- hear each side fully
- find options
- find options
- using a calm voice
- True
- step 4
- hear each side fully
- to understand fully
- cool off for a minute
- True
- makes it worse
- makes it worse
- help them calm down
- step 3
- calm down
- False
- calm down
- let each person speak
- shouting back
- step 2
- shouting back
- helps solve it
- helps solve it
- helps solve it
- step 1
- finding a middle way
- finding a middle way
- makes it worse
- step 1
- bringing up old fights
- list possible fixes
- combine the best parts
- walking off in anger
- brainstorm solutions
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