Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) walking off in anger (b) spreading gossip (c) shouting back (d) focusing on the problem
- 2.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) using a calm voice (b) shouting back (c) finding a middle way (d) focusing on the problem
- 3.True or false: “saying “I feel…”” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 4.True or false: “apologising sincerely” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 5.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) apologising sincerely (b) name-calling (c) bringing up old fights (d) shouting back
- 6.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) name-calling (b) shouting back (c) apologising sincerely (d) walking off in anger
- 7.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: shake hands on a plan? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
- 8.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: listening without blame? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 9.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or take a deep breath? (a) list possible fixes (b) take a deep breath
- 10.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or brainstorm solutions? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) brainstorm solutions
- 11.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: focusing on the problem? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 12.True or false: “walking off in anger” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 13.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: using a calm voice? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 14.True or false: “shouting back” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 15.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) listening without blame (b) apologising sincerely (c) bringing up old fights (d) finding a middle way
- 16.True or false: “finding a middle way” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 17.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) spreading gossip (b) shouting back (c) taking sides at once (d) finding a middle way
- 18.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or listen to both sides? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) listen to both sides
- 19.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) bringing up old fights (b) spreading gossip (c) walking off in anger (d) saying “I feel…”
- 20.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: brainstorm solutions or hear each side fully? (a) brainstorm solutions (b) hear each side fully
- 21.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or cool off for a minute? (a) agree on a plan (b) cool off for a minute
- 22.True or false: “name-calling” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 23.True or false: “taking sides at once” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 24.🗣️ Which line helps calm a conflict? (a) “Let’s hear both sides.” (b) “Stop being silly!” (c) “I don’t care.” (d) “You are always wrong.”
- 25.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: bringing up old fights? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 26.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) bringing up old fights (b) focusing on the problem (c) spreading gossip (d) taking sides at once
- 27.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) using a calm voice (b) walking off in anger (c) bringing up old fights (d) shouting back
- 28.✅ How does solving a conflict end? (a) with a winner and loser (b) with a fight (c) with an agreed plan (d) with silence
- 29.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) focusing on the problem (b) bringing up old fights (c) using a calm voice (d) listening without blame
- 30.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) shouting back (b) focusing on the problem (c) finding a middle way (d) apologising sincerely
- 31.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: choose a fix together? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
- 32.🧩 Two teammates are arguing loudly over who presents. What is the first step? (a) pick a winner fast (b) help them calm down (c) take a vote at once (d) ignore them
- 33.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or cool off for a minute? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) cool off for a minute
- 34.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: cool off for a minute or brainstorm solutions? (a) cool off for a minute (b) brainstorm solutions
- 35.True or false: “shouting back” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 36.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) listening without blame (b) shouting back (c) walking off in anger (d) taking sides at once
- 37.🤝 Two members want different poster designs. Which is a fair option? (a) the leader picks alone (b) scrap the project (c) combine the best parts (d) use the louder one’s
- 38.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) name-calling (b) taking sides at once (c) walking off in anger (d) using a calm voice
- 39.True or false: “finding a middle way” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 40.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: cool off for a minute? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
Answer key
- focusing on the problem
- shouting back
- True
- False
- apologising sincerely
- apologising sincerely
- step 4
- helps solve it
- take a deep breath
- brainstorm solutions
- helps solve it
- True
- helps solve it
- True
- bringing up old fights
- False
- finding a middle way
- listen to both sides
- saying “I feel…”
- hear each side fully
- cool off for a minute
- False
- True
- “Let’s hear both sides.”
- makes it worse
- focusing on the problem
- using a calm voice
- with an agreed plan
- bringing up old fights
- shouting back
- step 4
- help them calm down
- cool off for a minute
- cool off for a minute
- False
- listening without blame
- combine the best parts
- using a calm voice
- True
- step 1
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