Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.👂 Why listen to both sides in a conflict? (a) to waste time (b) to find who to blame (c) to understand fully (d) to pick a winner
- 2.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: agree on a plan? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
- 3.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: choose a fix together? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
- 4.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: shake hands on a plan? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
- 5.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) walking off in anger (b) taking sides at once (c) bringing up old fights (d) listening without blame
- 6.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: listen to both sides? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
- 7.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or hear each side fully? (a) list possible fixes (b) hear each side fully
- 8.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: using a calm voice? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 9.True or false: “name-calling” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 10.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: apologising sincerely? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 11.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: cool off for a minute? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
- 12.True or false: “bringing up old fights” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 13.True or false: “spreading gossip” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 14.True or false: “walking off in anger” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 15.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: hear each side fully? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
- 16.True or false: “shouting back” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 17.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: calm down or agree on a plan? (a) calm down (b) agree on a plan
- 18.🤝 Two members want different poster designs. Which is a fair option? (a) use the louder one’s (b) the leader picks alone (c) scrap the project (d) combine the best parts
- 19.True or false: “walking off in anger” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 20.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: listen to both sides or calm down? (a) listen to both sides (b) calm down
- 21.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) shouting back (c) bringing up old fights (d) spreading gossip
- 22.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or cool off for a minute? (a) find options (b) cool off for a minute
- 23.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) name-calling (b) listening without blame (c) finding a middle way (d) saying “I feel…”
- 24.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: shouting back? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 25.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: find options? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
- 26.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: brainstorm solutions? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
- 27.✅ How does solving a conflict end? (a) with a winner and loser (b) with silence (c) with a fight (d) with an agreed plan
- 28.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: take a deep breath? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
- 29.True or false: “listening without blame” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 30.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: bringing up old fights? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 31.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) listening without blame (b) taking sides at once (c) finding a middle way (d) apologising sincerely
- 32.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: calm down? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
- 33.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or calm down? (a) agree on a plan (b) calm down
- 34.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: let each person speak or shake hands on a plan? (a) let each person speak (b) shake hands on a plan
- 35.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or calm down? (a) list possible fixes (b) calm down
- 36.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) using a calm voice (b) saying “I feel…” (c) bringing up old fights (d) finding a middle way
- 37.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or choose a fix together? (a) list possible fixes (b) choose a fix together
- 38.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) bringing up old fights (b) taking sides at once (c) spreading gossip (d) apologising sincerely
- 39.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or shake hands on a plan? (a) list possible fixes (b) shake hands on a plan
- 40.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: saying “I feel…”? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
Answer key
- to understand fully
- step 4
- step 4
- step 4
- listening without blame
- step 2
- hear each side fully
- helps solve it
- False
- helps solve it
- step 1
- False
- False
- False
- step 2
- False
- calm down
- combine the best parts
- True
- calm down
- saying “I feel…”
- cool off for a minute
- name-calling
- makes it worse
- step 3
- step 3
- with an agreed plan
- step 1
- True
- makes it worse
- taking sides at once
- step 1
- calm down
- let each person speak
- calm down
- bringing up old fights
- list possible fixes
- apologising sincerely
- list possible fixes
- helps solve it
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