Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.🤝 Two members want different poster designs. Which is a fair option? (a) scrap the project (b) use the louder one’s (c) combine the best parts (d) the leader picks alone
- 2.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: calm down or listen to both sides? (a) calm down (b) listen to both sides
- 3.🧩 Two teammates are arguing loudly over who presents. What is the first step? (a) ignore them (b) help them calm down (c) pick a winner fast (d) take a vote at once
- 4.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: saying “I feel…”? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 5.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: cool off for a minute? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
- 6.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) shouting back (b) taking sides at once (c) name-calling (d) apologising sincerely
- 7.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or agree on a plan? (a) find options (b) agree on a plan
- 8.👂 Why listen to both sides in a conflict? (a) to pick a winner (b) to find who to blame (c) to waste time (d) to understand fully
- 9.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) spreading gossip (c) focusing on the problem (d) listening without blame
- 10.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: shouting back? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 11.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) name-calling (b) listening without blame (c) focusing on the problem (d) finding a middle way
- 12.True or false: “walking off in anger” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 13.True or false: “walking off in anger” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 14.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: choose a fix together? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
- 15.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) using a calm voice (b) saying “I feel…” (c) shouting back (d) finding a middle way
- 16.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or find options? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) find options
- 17.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) taking sides at once (b) bringing up old fights (c) saying “I feel…” (d) spreading gossip
- 18.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: taking sides at once? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 19.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: listening without blame? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 20.True or false: “apologising sincerely” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 21.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: shake hands on a plan? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
- 22.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: hear each side fully? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
- 23.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) bringing up old fights (b) spreading gossip (c) walking off in anger (d) finding a middle way
- 24.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or let each person speak? (a) agree on a plan (b) let each person speak
- 25.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or calm down? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) calm down
- 26.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: agree on a plan? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
- 27.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) listening without blame (b) apologising sincerely (c) focusing on the problem (d) name-calling
- 28.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) using a calm voice (b) shouting back (c) spreading gossip (d) walking off in anger
- 29.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) spreading gossip (b) bringing up old fights (c) name-calling (d) saying “I feel…”
- 30.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: listen to both sides or list possible fixes? (a) listen to both sides (b) list possible fixes
- 31.True or false: “using a calm voice” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 32.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: find options? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
- 33.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) taking sides at once (b) focusing on the problem (c) apologising sincerely (d) finding a middle way
- 34.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: focusing on the problem? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 35.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: take a deep breath? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
- 36.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: listen to both sides or find options? (a) listen to both sides (b) find options
- 37.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: let each person speak or shake hands on a plan? (a) let each person speak (b) shake hands on a plan
- 38.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: list possible fixes? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
- 39.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) walking off in anger (c) finding a middle way (d) using a calm voice
- 40.True or false: “focusing on the problem” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
Answer key
- combine the best parts
- calm down
- help them calm down
- helps solve it
- step 1
- apologising sincerely
- find options
- to understand fully
- spreading gossip
- makes it worse
- name-calling
- False
- True
- step 4
- shouting back
- find options
- saying “I feel…”
- makes it worse
- helps solve it
- False
- step 4
- step 2
- finding a middle way
- let each person speak
- calm down
- step 4
- name-calling
- using a calm voice
- saying “I feel…”
- listen to both sides
- False
- step 3
- taking sides at once
- helps solve it
- step 1
- listen to both sides
- let each person speak
- step 3
- walking off in anger
- True
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