Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.🗣️ Which line helps calm a conflict? (a) “I don’t care.” (b) “Stop being silly!” (c) “Let’s hear both sides.” (d) “You are always wrong.”
- 2.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: bringing up old fights? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 3.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) finding a middle way (b) saying “I feel…” (c) focusing on the problem (d) walking off in anger
- 4.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) apologising sincerely (b) bringing up old fights (c) shouting back (d) taking sides at once
- 5.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) finding a middle way (b) spreading gossip (c) name-calling (d) bringing up old fights
- 6.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: calm down? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
- 7.True or false: “name-calling” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 8.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: listen to both sides or cool off for a minute? (a) listen to both sides (b) cool off for a minute
- 9.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: shouting back? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 10.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: spreading gossip? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 11.True or false: “taking sides at once” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 12.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: listening without blame? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 13.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: hear each side fully? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
- 14.True or false: “bringing up old fights” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 15.✅ How does solving a conflict end? (a) with a winner and loser (b) with silence (c) with a fight (d) with an agreed plan
- 16.🧩 Two teammates are arguing loudly over who presents. What is the first step? (a) help them calm down (b) pick a winner fast (c) ignore them (d) take a vote at once
- 17.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or cool off for a minute? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) cool off for a minute
- 18.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) taking sides at once (b) shouting back (c) spreading gossip (d) focusing on the problem
- 19.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or shake hands on a plan? (a) find options (b) shake hands on a plan
- 20.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) name-calling (b) shouting back (c) walking off in anger (d) finding a middle way
- 21.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or hear each side fully? (a) find options (b) hear each side fully
- 22.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: take a deep breath or find options? (a) take a deep breath (b) find options
- 23.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: take a deep breath? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
- 24.True or false: “saying “I feel…”” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 25.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: list possible fixes? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
- 26.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) focusing on the problem (b) using a calm voice (c) apologising sincerely (d) spreading gossip
- 27.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: walking off in anger? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 28.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: find options? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
- 29.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or calm down? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) calm down
- 30.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or cool off for a minute? (a) list possible fixes (b) cool off for a minute
- 31.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or calm down? (a) list possible fixes (b) calm down
- 32.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) shouting back (b) spreading gossip (c) name-calling (d) saying “I feel…”
- 33.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: finding a middle way? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 34.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) walking off in anger (b) using a calm voice (c) name-calling (d) spreading gossip
- 35.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: choose a fix together or brainstorm solutions? (a) choose a fix together (b) brainstorm solutions
- 36.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: cool off for a minute? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
- 37.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) shouting back (b) using a calm voice (c) name-calling (d) bringing up old fights
- 38.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) using a calm voice (b) focusing on the problem (c) walking off in anger (d) listening without blame
- 39.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: using a calm voice? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 40.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: hear each side fully or take a deep breath? (a) hear each side fully (b) take a deep breath
Answer key
- “Let’s hear both sides.”
- makes it worse
- walking off in anger
- apologising sincerely
- finding a middle way
- step 1
- True
- cool off for a minute
- makes it worse
- makes it worse
- False
- helps solve it
- step 2
- False
- with an agreed plan
- help them calm down
- cool off for a minute
- focusing on the problem
- find options
- finding a middle way
- hear each side fully
- take a deep breath
- step 1
- False
- step 3
- spreading gossip
- makes it worse
- step 3
- calm down
- cool off for a minute
- calm down
- saying “I feel…”
- helps solve it
- using a calm voice
- brainstorm solutions
- step 1
- using a calm voice
- walking off in anger
- helps solve it
- take a deep breath
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