Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: calm down or find options? (a) calm down (b) find options
- 2.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: shouting back? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 3.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or brainstorm solutions? (a) agree on a plan (b) brainstorm solutions
- 4.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: let each person speak? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
- 5.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or let each person speak? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) let each person speak
- 6.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or list possible fixes? (a) agree on a plan (b) list possible fixes
- 7.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: take a deep breath? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
- 8.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: list possible fixes? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
- 9.True or false: “finding a middle way” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 10.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: calm down? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
- 11.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) bringing up old fights (b) walking off in anger (c) listening without blame (d) name-calling
- 12.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: listening without blame? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 13.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: calm down or let each person speak? (a) calm down (b) let each person speak
- 14.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: walking off in anger? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 15.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: brainstorm solutions or hear each side fully? (a) brainstorm solutions (b) hear each side fully
- 16.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) bringing up old fights (b) walking off in anger (c) shouting back (d) saying “I feel…”
- 17.🧩 Two teammates are arguing loudly over who presents. What is the first step? (a) ignore them (b) pick a winner fast (c) help them calm down (d) take a vote at once
- 18.True or false: “spreading gossip” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 19.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: name-calling? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 20.👂 Why listen to both sides in a conflict? (a) to understand fully (b) to find who to blame (c) to pick a winner (d) to waste time
- 21.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: brainstorm solutions or choose a fix together? (a) brainstorm solutions (b) choose a fix together
- 22.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: brainstorm solutions? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
- 23.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) using a calm voice (b) name-calling (c) bringing up old fights (d) walking off in anger
- 24.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) apologising sincerely (b) name-calling (c) walking off in anger (d) spreading gossip
- 25.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or shake hands on a plan? (a) list possible fixes (b) shake hands on a plan
- 26.🤝 Two members want different poster designs. Which is a fair option? (a) the leader picks alone (b) use the louder one’s (c) combine the best parts (d) scrap the project
- 27.True or false: “bringing up old fights” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 28.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) using a calm voice (b) focusing on the problem (c) walking off in anger (d) listening without blame
- 29.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: using a calm voice? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 30.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) bringing up old fights (b) finding a middle way (c) saying “I feel…” (d) using a calm voice
- 31.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: apologising sincerely? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 32.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) using a calm voice (b) name-calling (c) shouting back (d) taking sides at once
- 33.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) finding a middle way (b) taking sides at once (c) shouting back (d) walking off in anger
- 34.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) apologising sincerely (b) focusing on the problem (c) saying “I feel…” (d) spreading gossip
- 35.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) focusing on the problem (b) taking sides at once (c) using a calm voice (d) listening without blame
- 36.True or false: “apologising sincerely” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 37.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) finding a middle way (b) saying “I feel…” (c) walking off in anger (d) apologising sincerely
- 38.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) listening without blame (b) name-calling (c) using a calm voice (d) saying “I feel…”
- 39.✅ How does solving a conflict end? (a) with a fight (b) with a winner and loser (c) with silence (d) with an agreed plan
- 40.True or false: “focusing on the problem” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
Answer key
- calm down
- makes it worse
- brainstorm solutions
- step 2
- let each person speak
- list possible fixes
- step 1
- step 3
- False
- step 1
- listening without blame
- helps solve it
- calm down
- makes it worse
- hear each side fully
- saying “I feel…”
- help them calm down
- True
- makes it worse
- to understand fully
- brainstorm solutions
- step 3
- using a calm voice
- apologising sincerely
- list possible fixes
- combine the best parts
- False
- walking off in anger
- helps solve it
- bringing up old fights
- helps solve it
- using a calm voice
- finding a middle way
- spreading gossip
- taking sides at once
- False
- walking off in anger
- name-calling
- with an agreed plan
- False
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