Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: choose a fix together? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
- 2.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or calm down? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) calm down
- 3.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: calm down? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
- 4.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) listening without blame (b) apologising sincerely (c) using a calm voice (d) shouting back
- 5.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: find options? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
- 6.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) bringing up old fights (b) name-calling (c) spreading gossip (d) using a calm voice
- 7.True or false: “taking sides at once” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 8.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: calm down or hear each side fully? (a) calm down (b) hear each side fully
- 9.🤝 Two members want different poster designs. Which is a fair option? (a) use the louder one’s (b) combine the best parts (c) scrap the project (d) the leader picks alone
- 10.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: take a deep breath? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
- 11.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or agree on a plan? (a) list possible fixes (b) agree on a plan
- 12.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: finding a middle way? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 13.🗣️ Which line helps calm a conflict? (a) “I don’t care.” (b) “Let’s hear both sides.” (c) “You are always wrong.” (d) “Stop being silly!”
- 14.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: spreading gossip? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 15.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) bringing up old fights (c) shouting back (d) spreading gossip
- 16.True or false: “apologising sincerely” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 17.✅ How does solving a conflict end? (a) with an agreed plan (b) with a winner and loser (c) with a fight (d) with silence
- 18.True or false: “shouting back” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 19.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: cool off for a minute? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
- 20.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) walking off in anger (b) apologising sincerely (c) saying “I feel…” (d) focusing on the problem
- 21.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: let each person speak? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
- 22.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: take a deep breath or shake hands on a plan? (a) take a deep breath (b) shake hands on a plan
- 23.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or agree on a plan? (a) find options (b) agree on a plan
- 24.True or false: “saying “I feel…”” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 25.True or false: “listening without blame” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 26.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: bringing up old fights? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 27.True or false: “saying “I feel…”” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 28.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) focusing on the problem (b) walking off in anger (c) shouting back (d) spreading gossip
- 29.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: brainstorm solutions or agree on a plan? (a) brainstorm solutions (b) agree on a plan
- 30.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: let each person speak or cool off for a minute? (a) let each person speak (b) cool off for a minute
- 31.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: listen to both sides? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
- 32.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or shake hands on a plan? (a) find options (b) shake hands on a plan
- 33.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) spreading gossip (b) shouting back (c) taking sides at once (d) finding a middle way
- 34.True or false: “focusing on the problem” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 35.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: cool off for a minute or listen to both sides? (a) cool off for a minute (b) listen to both sides
- 36.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) taking sides at once (b) finding a middle way (c) spreading gossip (d) shouting back
- 37.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: name-calling? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 38.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: taking sides at once? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 39.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or choose a fix together? (a) list possible fixes (b) choose a fix together
- 40.True or false: “taking sides at once” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
Answer key
- step 4
- calm down
- step 1
- shouting back
- step 3
- using a calm voice
- False
- calm down
- combine the best parts
- step 1
- list possible fixes
- helps solve it
- “Let’s hear both sides.”
- makes it worse
- saying “I feel…”
- False
- with an agreed plan
- False
- step 1
- walking off in anger
- step 2
- take a deep breath
- find options
- False
- False
- makes it worse
- True
- focusing on the problem
- brainstorm solutions
- cool off for a minute
- step 2
- find options
- finding a middle way
- True
- cool off for a minute
- finding a middle way
- makes it worse
- makes it worse
- list possible fixes
- True
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