Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.🗣️ Which line helps calm a conflict? (a) “I don’t care.” (b) “Let’s hear both sides.” (c) “You are always wrong.” (d) “Stop being silly!”
- 2.True or false: “listening without blame” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 3.👂 Why listen to both sides in a conflict? (a) to understand fully (b) to find who to blame (c) to waste time (d) to pick a winner
- 4.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: choose a fix together? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
- 5.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: cool off for a minute? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
- 6.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) bringing up old fights (b) shouting back (c) walking off in anger (d) focusing on the problem
- 7.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or cool off for a minute? (a) list possible fixes (b) cool off for a minute
- 8.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: take a deep breath or choose a fix together? (a) take a deep breath (b) choose a fix together
- 9.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) apologising sincerely (b) taking sides at once (c) listening without blame (d) saying “I feel…”
- 10.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: walking off in anger? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 11.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: finding a middle way? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 12.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) taking sides at once (b) bringing up old fights (c) shouting back (d) finding a middle way
- 13.True or false: “saying “I feel…”” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 14.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or let each person speak? (a) list possible fixes (b) let each person speak
- 15.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) walking off in anger (b) taking sides at once (c) shouting back (d) saying “I feel…”
- 16.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: list possible fixes? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
- 17.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or hear each side fully? (a) agree on a plan (b) hear each side fully
- 18.True or false: “apologising sincerely” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 19.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) walking off in anger (b) bringing up old fights (c) focusing on the problem (d) spreading gossip
- 20.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) name-calling (b) spreading gossip (c) listening without blame (d) walking off in anger
- 21.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) using a calm voice (b) focusing on the problem (c) finding a middle way (d) name-calling
- 22.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) shouting back (b) apologising sincerely (c) listening without blame (d) saying “I feel…”
- 23.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: brainstorm solutions? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
- 24.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: cool off for a minute or agree on a plan? (a) cool off for a minute (b) agree on a plan
- 25.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or list possible fixes? (a) agree on a plan (b) list possible fixes
- 26.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: shake hands on a plan? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
- 27.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: take a deep breath? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
- 28.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) listening without blame (b) focusing on the problem (c) using a calm voice (d) bringing up old fights
- 29.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: shouting back? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 30.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) listening without blame (b) focusing on the problem (c) using a calm voice (d) bringing up old fights
- 31.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: using a calm voice? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 32.🤝 Two members want different poster designs. Which is a fair option? (a) use the louder one’s (b) scrap the project (c) the leader picks alone (d) combine the best parts
- 33.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: spreading gossip? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 34.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) listening without blame (b) finding a middle way (c) focusing on the problem (d) name-calling
- 35.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or listen to both sides? (a) find options (b) listen to both sides
- 36.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: calm down? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
- 37.True or false: “saying “I feel…”” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 38.True or false: “bringing up old fights” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 39.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) shouting back (b) saying “I feel…” (c) using a calm voice (d) focusing on the problem
- 40.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) using a calm voice (b) listening without blame (c) saying “I feel…” (d) walking off in anger
Answer key
- “Let’s hear both sides.”
- True
- to understand fully
- step 4
- step 1
- focusing on the problem
- cool off for a minute
- take a deep breath
- taking sides at once
- makes it worse
- helps solve it
- finding a middle way
- False
- let each person speak
- saying “I feel…”
- step 3
- hear each side fully
- False
- focusing on the problem
- listening without blame
- name-calling
- shouting back
- step 3
- cool off for a minute
- list possible fixes
- step 4
- step 1
- bringing up old fights
- makes it worse
- bringing up old fights
- helps solve it
- combine the best parts
- makes it worse
- name-calling
- listen to both sides
- step 1
- True
- True
- shouting back
- walking off in anger
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