Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or shake hands on a plan? (a) find options (b) shake hands on a plan
- 2.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) apologising sincerely (b) saying “I feel…” (c) using a calm voice (d) spreading gossip
- 3.🤝 Two members want different poster designs. Which is a fair option? (a) use the louder one’s (b) combine the best parts (c) scrap the project (d) the leader picks alone
- 4.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or list possible fixes? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) list possible fixes
- 5.👂 Why listen to both sides in a conflict? (a) to find who to blame (b) to waste time (c) to pick a winner (d) to understand fully
- 6.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) finding a middle way (b) focusing on the problem (c) using a calm voice (d) taking sides at once
- 7.True or false: “finding a middle way” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 8.True or false: “saying “I feel…”” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 9.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: choose a fix together? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
- 10.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: listen to both sides? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
- 11.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: take a deep breath? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
- 12.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: taking sides at once? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 13.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) taking sides at once (b) focusing on the problem (c) listening without blame (d) using a calm voice
- 14.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: finding a middle way? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 15.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or calm down? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) calm down
- 16.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) listening without blame (c) name-calling (d) using a calm voice
- 17.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) apologising sincerely (b) name-calling (c) saying “I feel…” (d) focusing on the problem
- 18.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: brainstorm solutions or let each person speak? (a) brainstorm solutions (b) let each person speak
- 19.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: walking off in anger? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 20.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: cool off for a minute? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
- 21.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or agree on a plan? (a) find options (b) agree on a plan
- 22.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or list possible fixes? (a) agree on a plan (b) list possible fixes
- 23.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: find options? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
- 24.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: hear each side fully? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
- 25.🗣️ Which line helps calm a conflict? (a) “You are always wrong.” (b) “I don’t care.” (c) “Stop being silly!” (d) “Let’s hear both sides.”
- 26.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or let each person speak? (a) list possible fixes (b) let each person speak
- 27.True or false: “focusing on the problem” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 28.True or false: “name-calling” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 29.🧩 Two teammates are arguing loudly over who presents. What is the first step? (a) ignore them (b) help them calm down (c) take a vote at once (d) pick a winner fast
- 30.✅ How does solving a conflict end? (a) with an agreed plan (b) with a fight (c) with silence (d) with a winner and loser
- 31.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: cool off for a minute or agree on a plan? (a) cool off for a minute (b) agree on a plan
- 32.True or false: “bringing up old fights” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 33.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: listen to both sides or shake hands on a plan? (a) listen to both sides (b) shake hands on a plan
- 34.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: calm down? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
- 35.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or brainstorm solutions? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) brainstorm solutions
- 36.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) apologising sincerely (b) saying “I feel…” (c) bringing up old fights (d) focusing on the problem
- 37.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: listening without blame? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 38.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: brainstorm solutions? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
- 39.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: agree on a plan? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
- 40.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) finding a middle way (b) listening without blame (c) apologising sincerely (d) spreading gossip
Answer key
- find options
- spreading gossip
- combine the best parts
- list possible fixes
- to understand fully
- taking sides at once
- False
- True
- step 4
- step 2
- step 1
- makes it worse
- taking sides at once
- helps solve it
- calm down
- name-calling
- name-calling
- let each person speak
- makes it worse
- step 1
- find options
- list possible fixes
- step 3
- step 2
- “Let’s hear both sides.”
- let each person speak
- True
- True
- help them calm down
- with an agreed plan
- cool off for a minute
- False
- listen to both sides
- step 1
- brainstorm solutions
- bringing up old fights
- helps solve it
- step 3
- step 4
- spreading gossip
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