Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: calm down? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
- 2.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) spreading gossip (b) apologising sincerely (c) name-calling (d) taking sides at once
- 3.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) finding a middle way (b) taking sides at once (c) listening without blame (d) saying “I feel…”
- 4.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) finding a middle way (b) using a calm voice (c) spreading gossip (d) apologising sincerely
- 5.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) apologising sincerely (b) listening without blame (c) saying “I feel…” (d) taking sides at once
- 6.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: listening without blame? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 7.🤝 Two members want different poster designs. Which is a fair option? (a) the leader picks alone (b) scrap the project (c) combine the best parts (d) use the louder one’s
- 8.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: choose a fix together or find options? (a) choose a fix together (b) find options
- 9.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) walking off in anger (b) shouting back (c) taking sides at once (d) finding a middle way
- 10.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: calm down or find options? (a) calm down (b) find options
- 11.✅ How does solving a conflict end? (a) with an agreed plan (b) with a winner and loser (c) with a fight (d) with silence
- 12.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: list possible fixes? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
- 13.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) walking off in anger (b) spreading gossip (c) using a calm voice (d) shouting back
- 14.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: hear each side fully or agree on a plan? (a) hear each side fully (b) agree on a plan
- 15.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: using a calm voice? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 16.True or false: “taking sides at once” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 17.True or false: “spreading gossip” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 18.👂 Why listen to both sides in a conflict? (a) to pick a winner (b) to find who to blame (c) to understand fully (d) to waste time
- 19.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) listening without blame (b) saying “I feel…” (c) shouting back (d) finding a middle way
- 20.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) bringing up old fights (c) finding a middle way (d) using a calm voice
- 21.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: shake hands on a plan? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
- 22.True or false: “taking sides at once” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 23.True or false: “focusing on the problem” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 24.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or calm down? (a) find options (b) calm down
- 25.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) shouting back (c) using a calm voice (d) finding a middle way
- 26.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: let each person speak? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
- 27.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) listening without blame (b) using a calm voice (c) bringing up old fights (d) apologising sincerely
- 28.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) spreading gossip (b) bringing up old fights (c) taking sides at once (d) finding a middle way
- 29.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: walking off in anger? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 30.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: brainstorm solutions or calm down? (a) brainstorm solutions (b) calm down
- 31.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: listen to both sides or agree on a plan? (a) listen to both sides (b) agree on a plan
- 32.True or false: “using a calm voice” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 33.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: spreading gossip? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 34.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: cool off for a minute? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
- 35.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or listen to both sides? (a) list possible fixes (b) listen to both sides
- 36.🧩 Two teammates are arguing loudly over who presents. What is the first step? (a) ignore them (b) pick a winner fast (c) take a vote at once (d) help them calm down
- 37.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or cool off for a minute? (a) agree on a plan (b) cool off for a minute
- 38.True or false: “name-calling” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 39.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: brainstorm solutions or listen to both sides? (a) brainstorm solutions (b) listen to both sides
- 40.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) shouting back (b) name-calling (c) saying “I feel…” (d) spreading gossip
Answer key
- step 1
- apologising sincerely
- taking sides at once
- spreading gossip
- taking sides at once
- helps solve it
- combine the best parts
- find options
- finding a middle way
- calm down
- with an agreed plan
- step 3
- using a calm voice
- hear each side fully
- helps solve it
- False
- False
- to understand fully
- shouting back
- bringing up old fights
- step 4
- True
- True
- calm down
- shouting back
- step 2
- bringing up old fights
- finding a middle way
- makes it worse
- calm down
- listen to both sides
- False
- makes it worse
- step 1
- listen to both sides
- help them calm down
- cool off for a minute
- True
- listen to both sides
- saying “I feel…”
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