Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: list possible fixes? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
- 2.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) finding a middle way (b) using a calm voice (c) taking sides at once (d) focusing on the problem
- 3.👂 Why listen to both sides in a conflict? (a) to pick a winner (b) to waste time (c) to understand fully (d) to find who to blame
- 4.✅ How does solving a conflict end? (a) with silence (b) with a fight (c) with an agreed plan (d) with a winner and loser
- 5.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: bringing up old fights? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 6.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or shake hands on a plan? (a) list possible fixes (b) shake hands on a plan
- 7.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: take a deep breath? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
- 8.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or brainstorm solutions? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) brainstorm solutions
- 9.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: name-calling? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 10.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: let each person speak or find options? (a) let each person speak (b) find options
- 11.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) walking off in anger (b) spreading gossip (c) taking sides at once (d) using a calm voice
- 12.🧩 Two teammates are arguing loudly over who presents. What is the first step? (a) help them calm down (b) pick a winner fast (c) ignore them (d) take a vote at once
- 13.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or agree on a plan? (a) list possible fixes (b) agree on a plan
- 14.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: agree on a plan? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
- 15.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or calm down? (a) find options (b) calm down
- 16.True or false: “name-calling” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 17.True or false: “taking sides at once” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 18.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: walking off in anger? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 19.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: find options? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
- 20.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) walking off in anger (c) shouting back (d) spreading gossip
- 21.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or find options? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) find options
- 22.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) walking off in anger (b) taking sides at once (c) bringing up old fights (d) saying “I feel…”
- 23.True or false: “listening without blame” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 24.True or false: “finding a middle way” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 25.True or false: “shouting back” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 26.🤝 Two members want different poster designs. Which is a fair option? (a) the leader picks alone (b) combine the best parts (c) scrap the project (d) use the louder one’s
- 27.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: choose a fix together or calm down? (a) choose a fix together (b) calm down
- 28.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: calm down or listen to both sides? (a) calm down (b) listen to both sides
- 29.True or false: “bringing up old fights” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 30.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or find options? (a) agree on a plan (b) find options
- 31.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) shouting back (b) focusing on the problem (c) walking off in anger (d) taking sides at once
- 32.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: shake hands on a plan? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
- 33.True or false: “saying “I feel…”” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 34.True or false: “using a calm voice” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 35.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: listening without blame? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 36.True or false: “shouting back” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 37.True or false: “listening without blame” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 38.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) using a calm voice (c) focusing on the problem (d) name-calling
- 39.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: choose a fix together or find options? (a) choose a fix together (b) find options
- 40.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: cool off for a minute? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
Answer key
- step 3
- taking sides at once
- to understand fully
- with an agreed plan
- makes it worse
- list possible fixes
- step 1
- brainstorm solutions
- makes it worse
- let each person speak
- using a calm voice
- help them calm down
- list possible fixes
- step 4
- calm down
- True
- True
- makes it worse
- step 3
- saying “I feel…”
- find options
- saying “I feel…”
- False
- False
- True
- combine the best parts
- calm down
- calm down
- True
- find options
- focusing on the problem
- step 4
- False
- True
- helps solve it
- False
- True
- name-calling
- find options
- step 1
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