Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: spreading gossip? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 2.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) listening without blame (b) bringing up old fights (c) saying “I feel…” (d) apologising sincerely
- 3.True or false: “saying “I feel…”” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 4.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: brainstorm solutions? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
- 5.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) shouting back (b) name-calling (c) walking off in anger (d) saying “I feel…”
- 6.✅ How does solving a conflict end? (a) with an agreed plan (b) with silence (c) with a fight (d) with a winner and loser
- 7.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: bringing up old fights? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 8.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: focusing on the problem? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 9.True or false: “focusing on the problem” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 10.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: shake hands on a plan? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
- 11.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) shouting back (b) apologising sincerely (c) taking sides at once (d) spreading gossip
- 12.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) walking off in anger (b) name-calling (c) shouting back (d) focusing on the problem
- 13.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: listening without blame? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 14.🤝 Two members want different poster designs. Which is a fair option? (a) combine the best parts (b) use the louder one’s (c) the leader picks alone (d) scrap the project
- 15.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) focusing on the problem (b) taking sides at once (c) apologising sincerely (d) saying “I feel…”
- 16.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: let each person speak or agree on a plan? (a) let each person speak (b) agree on a plan
- 17.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) taking sides at once (b) spreading gossip (c) walking off in anger (d) saying “I feel…”
- 18.True or false: “listening without blame” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 19.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: agree on a plan? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
- 20.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: find options? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
- 21.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or find options? (a) agree on a plan (b) find options
- 22.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: choose a fix together or list possible fixes? (a) choose a fix together (b) list possible fixes
- 23.True or false: “using a calm voice” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 24.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: list possible fixes? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
- 25.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: calm down? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
- 26.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) finding a middle way (b) shouting back (c) focusing on the problem (d) apologising sincerely
- 27.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) taking sides at once (b) finding a middle way (c) spreading gossip (d) shouting back
- 28.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: name-calling? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 29.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: saying “I feel…”? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 30.🗣️ Which line helps calm a conflict? (a) “I don’t care.” (b) “You are always wrong.” (c) “Stop being silly!” (d) “Let’s hear both sides.”
- 31.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: listen to both sides? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
- 32.True or false: “listening without blame” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 33.True or false: “shouting back” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 34.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) focusing on the problem (b) bringing up old fights (c) walking off in anger (d) name-calling
- 35.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: let each person speak? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
- 36.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: shouting back? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 37.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) walking off in anger (b) shouting back (c) using a calm voice (d) spreading gossip
- 38.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) bringing up old fights (b) walking off in anger (c) spreading gossip (d) apologising sincerely
- 39.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) apologising sincerely (b) listening without blame (c) focusing on the problem (d) shouting back
- 40.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) focusing on the problem (c) name-calling (d) listening without blame
Answer key
- makes it worse
- bringing up old fights
- True
- step 3
- saying “I feel…”
- with an agreed plan
- makes it worse
- helps solve it
- False
- step 4
- apologising sincerely
- focusing on the problem
- helps solve it
- combine the best parts
- taking sides at once
- let each person speak
- saying “I feel…”
- False
- step 4
- step 3
- find options
- list possible fixes
- False
- step 3
- step 1
- shouting back
- finding a middle way
- makes it worse
- helps solve it
- “Let’s hear both sides.”
- step 2
- True
- False
- focusing on the problem
- step 2
- makes it worse
- using a calm voice
- apologising sincerely
- shouting back
- name-calling
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