Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: name-calling? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 2.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: find options? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
- 3.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: spreading gossip? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 4.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) bringing up old fights (b) spreading gossip (c) finding a middle way (d) shouting back
- 5.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or list possible fixes? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) list possible fixes
- 6.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) using a calm voice (b) apologising sincerely (c) spreading gossip (d) listening without blame
- 7.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: choose a fix together or let each person speak? (a) choose a fix together (b) let each person speak
- 8.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: let each person speak or choose a fix together? (a) let each person speak (b) choose a fix together
- 9.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) taking sides at once (b) name-calling (c) bringing up old fights (d) finding a middle way
- 10.True or false: “apologising sincerely” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 11.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) focusing on the problem (b) apologising sincerely (c) saying “I feel…” (d) taking sides at once
- 12.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: hear each side fully? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
- 13.True or false: “finding a middle way” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 14.✅ How does solving a conflict end? (a) with a winner and loser (b) with a fight (c) with silence (d) with an agreed plan
- 15.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: listen to both sides? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
- 16.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: shouting back? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 17.True or false: “listening without blame” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 18.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: using a calm voice? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 19.True or false: “shouting back” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 20.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: listening without blame? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 21.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: apologising sincerely? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 22.True or false: “bringing up old fights” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 23.True or false: “saying “I feel…”” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 24.🗣️ Which line helps calm a conflict? (a) “I don’t care.” (b) “You are always wrong.” (c) “Let’s hear both sides.” (d) “Stop being silly!”
- 25.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: brainstorm solutions or calm down? (a) brainstorm solutions (b) calm down
- 26.👂 Why listen to both sides in a conflict? (a) to pick a winner (b) to find who to blame (c) to waste time (d) to understand fully
- 27.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) name-calling (b) apologising sincerely (c) bringing up old fights (d) spreading gossip
- 28.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) taking sides at once (b) shouting back (c) name-calling (d) saying “I feel…”
- 29.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or brainstorm solutions? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) brainstorm solutions
- 30.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: agree on a plan? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
- 31.True or false: “listening without blame” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 32.True or false: “focusing on the problem” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 33.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) shouting back (b) focusing on the problem (c) finding a middle way (d) using a calm voice
- 34.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) walking off in anger (b) spreading gossip (c) focusing on the problem (d) shouting back
- 35.True or false: “using a calm voice” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 36.🤝 Two members want different poster designs. Which is a fair option? (a) the leader picks alone (b) use the louder one’s (c) scrap the project (d) combine the best parts
- 37.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: cool off for a minute or let each person speak? (a) cool off for a minute (b) let each person speak
- 38.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: shake hands on a plan? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
- 39.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or calm down? (a) agree on a plan (b) calm down
- 40.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: hear each side fully or agree on a plan? (a) hear each side fully (b) agree on a plan
Answer key
- makes it worse
- step 3
- makes it worse
- finding a middle way
- list possible fixes
- spreading gossip
- let each person speak
- let each person speak
- finding a middle way
- False
- taking sides at once
- step 2
- False
- with an agreed plan
- step 2
- makes it worse
- True
- helps solve it
- False
- helps solve it
- helps solve it
- True
- True
- “Let’s hear both sides.”
- calm down
- to understand fully
- apologising sincerely
- saying “I feel…”
- brainstorm solutions
- step 4
- False
- False
- shouting back
- focusing on the problem
- True
- combine the best parts
- cool off for a minute
- step 4
- calm down
- hear each side fully
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