Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) listening without blame (b) spreading gossip (c) focusing on the problem (d) using a calm voice
- 2.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: list possible fixes? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
- 3.🧩 Two teammates are arguing loudly over who presents. What is the first step? (a) help them calm down (b) pick a winner fast (c) take a vote at once (d) ignore them
- 4.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: bringing up old fights? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 5.🗣️ Which line helps calm a conflict? (a) “You are always wrong.” (b) “I don’t care.” (c) “Stop being silly!” (d) “Let’s hear both sides.”
- 6.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: find options? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
- 7.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) spreading gossip (b) saying “I feel…” (c) taking sides at once (d) name-calling
- 8.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: take a deep breath? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
- 9.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: spreading gossip? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 10.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) walking off in anger (b) spreading gossip (c) shouting back (d) using a calm voice
- 11.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) using a calm voice (b) walking off in anger (c) apologising sincerely (d) finding a middle way
- 12.👂 Why listen to both sides in a conflict? (a) to waste time (b) to pick a winner (c) to find who to blame (d) to understand fully
- 13.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) spreading gossip (b) bringing up old fights (c) listening without blame (d) taking sides at once
- 14.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: brainstorm solutions? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
- 15.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: name-calling? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 16.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or agree on a plan? (a) find options (b) agree on a plan
- 17.True or false: “saying “I feel…”” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 18.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: focusing on the problem? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 19.True or false: “walking off in anger” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 20.🤝 Two members want different poster designs. Which is a fair option? (a) combine the best parts (b) the leader picks alone (c) use the louder one’s (d) scrap the project
- 21.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: agree on a plan? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
- 22.True or false: “walking off in anger” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 23.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: listen to both sides? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
- 24.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) shouting back (b) bringing up old fights (c) name-calling (d) focusing on the problem
- 25.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) taking sides at once (b) listening without blame (c) spreading gossip (d) walking off in anger
- 26.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: let each person speak or brainstorm solutions? (a) let each person speak (b) brainstorm solutions
- 27.True or false: “taking sides at once” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 28.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: cool off for a minute? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
- 29.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) finding a middle way (b) taking sides at once (c) bringing up old fights (d) name-calling
- 30.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: hear each side fully or find options? (a) hear each side fully (b) find options
- 31.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) shouting back (c) apologising sincerely (d) using a calm voice
- 32.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) using a calm voice (b) walking off in anger (c) listening without blame (d) finding a middle way
- 33.✅ How does solving a conflict end? (a) with a winner and loser (b) with silence (c) with a fight (d) with an agreed plan
- 34.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: using a calm voice? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 35.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: let each person speak? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
- 36.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: saying “I feel…”? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 37.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) bringing up old fights (b) saying “I feel…” (c) listening without blame (d) using a calm voice
- 38.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or find options? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) find options
- 39.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: take a deep breath or list possible fixes? (a) take a deep breath (b) list possible fixes
- 40.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: calm down? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
Answer key
- spreading gossip
- step 3
- help them calm down
- makes it worse
- “Let’s hear both sides.”
- step 3
- saying “I feel…”
- step 1
- makes it worse
- using a calm voice
- walking off in anger
- to understand fully
- listening without blame
- step 3
- makes it worse
- find options
- True
- helps solve it
- True
- combine the best parts
- step 4
- False
- step 2
- focusing on the problem
- listening without blame
- let each person speak
- False
- step 1
- finding a middle way
- hear each side fully
- shouting back
- walking off in anger
- with an agreed plan
- helps solve it
- step 2
- helps solve it
- bringing up old fights
- find options
- take a deep breath
- step 1
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