Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) bringing up old fights (b) apologising sincerely (c) walking off in anger (d) shouting back
- 2.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: shake hands on a plan? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
- 3.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: listening without blame? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 4.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: using a calm voice? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 5.👂 Why listen to both sides in a conflict? (a) to understand fully (b) to find who to blame (c) to pick a winner (d) to waste time
- 6.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) finding a middle way (b) listening without blame (c) spreading gossip (d) saying “I feel…”
- 7.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: agree on a plan? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
- 8.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: find options? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
- 9.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: list possible fixes? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
- 10.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: brainstorm solutions or calm down? (a) brainstorm solutions (b) calm down
- 11.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) using a calm voice (b) bringing up old fights (c) focusing on the problem (d) apologising sincerely
- 12.✅ How does solving a conflict end? (a) with an agreed plan (b) with a fight (c) with a winner and loser (d) with silence
- 13.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) shouting back (b) walking off in anger (c) using a calm voice (d) name-calling
- 14.True or false: “spreading gossip” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 15.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: brainstorm solutions or shake hands on a plan? (a) brainstorm solutions (b) shake hands on a plan
- 16.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: bringing up old fights? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 17.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) listening without blame (b) saying “I feel…” (c) using a calm voice (d) spreading gossip
- 18.🗣️ Which line helps calm a conflict? (a) “Stop being silly!” (b) “You are always wrong.” (c) “Let’s hear both sides.” (d) “I don’t care.”
- 19.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: cool off for a minute or shake hands on a plan? (a) cool off for a minute (b) shake hands on a plan
- 20.True or false: “spreading gossip” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 21.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) listening without blame (b) focusing on the problem (c) saying “I feel…” (d) taking sides at once
- 22.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) taking sides at once (b) using a calm voice (c) shouting back (d) walking off in anger
- 23.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) walking off in anger (b) listening without blame (c) taking sides at once (d) bringing up old fights
- 24.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) finding a middle way (b) apologising sincerely (c) listening without blame (d) taking sides at once
- 25.True or false: “apologising sincerely” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 26.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) name-calling (b) walking off in anger (c) bringing up old fights (d) saying “I feel…”
- 27.True or false: “apologising sincerely” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 28.🧩 Two teammates are arguing loudly over who presents. What is the first step? (a) ignore them (b) help them calm down (c) pick a winner fast (d) take a vote at once
- 29.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: spreading gossip? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 30.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or agree on a plan? (a) find options (b) agree on a plan
- 31.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: hear each side fully or shake hands on a plan? (a) hear each side fully (b) shake hands on a plan
- 32.True or false: “listening without blame” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 33.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) finding a middle way (b) using a calm voice (c) saying “I feel…” (d) walking off in anger
- 34.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: cool off for a minute? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
- 35.True or false: “listening without blame” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 36.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) listening without blame (b) saying “I feel…” (c) shouting back (d) using a calm voice
- 37.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) spreading gossip (b) saying “I feel…” (c) walking off in anger (d) shouting back
- 38.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or list possible fixes? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) list possible fixes
- 39.True or false: “saying “I feel…”” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 40.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) listening without blame (b) saying “I feel…” (c) shouting back (d) finding a middle way
Answer key
- apologising sincerely
- step 4
- helps solve it
- helps solve it
- to understand fully
- spreading gossip
- step 4
- step 3
- step 3
- calm down
- bringing up old fights
- with an agreed plan
- using a calm voice
- False
- brainstorm solutions
- makes it worse
- spreading gossip
- “Let’s hear both sides.”
- cool off for a minute
- True
- taking sides at once
- using a calm voice
- listening without blame
- taking sides at once
- True
- saying “I feel…”
- False
- help them calm down
- makes it worse
- find options
- hear each side fully
- True
- walking off in anger
- step 1
- False
- shouting back
- saying “I feel…”
- list possible fixes
- True
- shouting back
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