Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) listening without blame (b) finding a middle way (c) walking off in anger (d) focusing on the problem
- 2.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) taking sides at once (b) name-calling (c) shouting back (d) listening without blame
- 3.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: hear each side fully or calm down? (a) hear each side fully (b) calm down
- 4.👂 Why listen to both sides in a conflict? (a) to waste time (b) to pick a winner (c) to understand fully (d) to find who to blame
- 5.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: finding a middle way? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 6.True or false: “saying “I feel…”” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 7.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: focusing on the problem? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 8.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: brainstorm solutions or hear each side fully? (a) brainstorm solutions (b) hear each side fully
- 9.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: taking sides at once? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 10.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or list possible fixes? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) list possible fixes
- 11.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) spreading gossip (b) using a calm voice (c) listening without blame (d) saying “I feel…”
- 12.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: listening without blame? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 13.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: shouting back? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 14.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: listen to both sides or calm down? (a) listen to both sides (b) calm down
- 15.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) bringing up old fights (b) saying “I feel…” (c) shouting back (d) taking sides at once
- 16.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or hear each side fully? (a) find options (b) hear each side fully
- 17.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: let each person speak? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
- 18.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: let each person speak or cool off for a minute? (a) let each person speak (b) cool off for a minute
- 19.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: walking off in anger? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 20.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: listen to both sides? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
- 21.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: name-calling? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 22.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) taking sides at once (b) walking off in anger (c) spreading gossip (d) saying “I feel…”
- 23.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) listening without blame (b) shouting back (c) name-calling (d) walking off in anger
- 24.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or listen to both sides? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) listen to both sides
- 25.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or take a deep breath? (a) find options (b) take a deep breath
- 26.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) name-calling (b) bringing up old fights (c) walking off in anger (d) finding a middle way
- 27.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) focusing on the problem (b) taking sides at once (c) listening without blame (d) finding a middle way
- 28.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) spreading gossip (b) listening without blame (c) using a calm voice (d) saying “I feel…”
- 29.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: calm down? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
- 30.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: let each person speak or calm down? (a) let each person speak (b) calm down
- 31.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: let each person speak or choose a fix together? (a) let each person speak (b) choose a fix together
- 32.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: bringing up old fights? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 33.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: cool off for a minute? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
- 34.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) listening without blame (b) using a calm voice (c) finding a middle way (d) name-calling
- 35.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: find options? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
- 36.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: apologising sincerely? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 37.True or false: “apologising sincerely” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 38.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) apologising sincerely (b) shouting back (c) saying “I feel…” (d) using a calm voice
- 39.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: list possible fixes? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
- 40.True or false: “bringing up old fights” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
Answer key
- walking off in anger
- listening without blame
- calm down
- to understand fully
- helps solve it
- False
- helps solve it
- hear each side fully
- makes it worse
- list possible fixes
- spreading gossip
- helps solve it
- makes it worse
- calm down
- saying “I feel…”
- hear each side fully
- step 2
- cool off for a minute
- makes it worse
- step 2
- makes it worse
- saying “I feel…”
- listening without blame
- listen to both sides
- take a deep breath
- finding a middle way
- taking sides at once
- spreading gossip
- step 1
- calm down
- let each person speak
- makes it worse
- step 1
- name-calling
- step 3
- helps solve it
- False
- shouting back
- step 3
- False
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