Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: let each person speak? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
- 2.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or agree on a plan? (a) list possible fixes (b) agree on a plan
- 3.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: calm down? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
- 4.👂 Why listen to both sides in a conflict? (a) to pick a winner (b) to waste time (c) to understand fully (d) to find who to blame
- 5.True or false: “spreading gossip” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 6.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) listening without blame (b) finding a middle way (c) using a calm voice (d) spreading gossip
- 7.True or false: “name-calling” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 8.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: apologising sincerely? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 9.🤝 Two members want different poster designs. Which is a fair option? (a) combine the best parts (b) use the louder one’s (c) scrap the project (d) the leader picks alone
- 10.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: agree on a plan? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
- 11.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) spreading gossip (b) using a calm voice (c) bringing up old fights (d) shouting back
- 12.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: choose a fix together or take a deep breath? (a) choose a fix together (b) take a deep breath
- 13.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or list possible fixes? (a) agree on a plan (b) list possible fixes
- 14.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: using a calm voice? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 15.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: listening without blame? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 16.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: take a deep breath? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
- 17.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: bringing up old fights? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 18.True or false: “walking off in anger” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 19.True or false: “listening without blame” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 20.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: brainstorm solutions or calm down? (a) brainstorm solutions (b) calm down
- 21.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) using a calm voice (b) saying “I feel…” (c) bringing up old fights (d) listening without blame
- 22.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: list possible fixes? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
- 23.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) focusing on the problem (b) taking sides at once (c) apologising sincerely (d) using a calm voice
- 24.True or false: “bringing up old fights” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 25.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) apologising sincerely (b) name-calling (c) walking off in anger (d) bringing up old fights
- 26.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or agree on a plan? (a) find options (b) agree on a plan
- 27.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) listening without blame (b) spreading gossip (c) saying “I feel…” (d) focusing on the problem
- 28.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: choose a fix together or let each person speak? (a) choose a fix together (b) let each person speak
- 29.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) listening without blame (b) saying “I feel…” (c) walking off in anger (d) using a calm voice
- 30.True or false: “saying “I feel…”” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 31.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) shouting back (b) taking sides at once (c) spreading gossip (d) saying “I feel…”
- 32.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or calm down? (a) agree on a plan (b) calm down
- 33.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: take a deep breath or list possible fixes? (a) take a deep breath (b) list possible fixes
- 34.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: calm down or choose a fix together? (a) calm down (b) choose a fix together
- 35.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: choose a fix together? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
- 36.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: name-calling? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 37.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: choose a fix together or find options? (a) choose a fix together (b) find options
- 38.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: finding a middle way? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 39.✅ How does solving a conflict end? (a) with a winner and loser (b) with silence (c) with an agreed plan (d) with a fight
- 40.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: calm down or find options? (a) calm down (b) find options
Answer key
- step 2
- list possible fixes
- step 1
- to understand fully
- False
- spreading gossip
- False
- helps solve it
- combine the best parts
- step 4
- using a calm voice
- take a deep breath
- list possible fixes
- helps solve it
- helps solve it
- step 1
- makes it worse
- False
- True
- calm down
- bringing up old fights
- step 3
- taking sides at once
- False
- apologising sincerely
- find options
- spreading gossip
- let each person speak
- walking off in anger
- True
- saying “I feel…”
- calm down
- take a deep breath
- calm down
- step 4
- makes it worse
- find options
- helps solve it
- with an agreed plan
- calm down
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